Why One Mother Gave Back Her Adopted Son

Amanda Robb, Yahoo! Shine, March 20, 2014

Stacey Conner, a 41-year-old mom and former attorney from Spokane, Wash., dreamed of having a large family with biological and adopted kids. “The world is a big place with a lot of children in it; we wanted to bring some of those into our family, to give our love to kids without it,” she says. After she volunteered in an orphanage in poverty-torn Haiti in 2005, Conner and her husband, Matt, a pharmacist, decided to adopt two children. But the process was so slow that by October 2006, when they brought home their (unrelated) 5-year-old Haitian son and 1-year-old Haitian daughter, Conner had given birth to a son, who was 1. “Having an instant multicultural family was magical,” Conner says, “for about two weeks.”

Stacey Conner

Stacey Conner

Her older son, whom she calls J here, “engaged every person he met–he literally crawled into the laps of strangers,” says Conner. “But if I said ‘It’s time to go’ or anything that asserted I was in control, he’d rage, bang and scream for hours.” Very quickly, Conner had a sinking feeling she tried to push away. “I was committing the worst maternal sin: I felt like I loved one child less than the others.”

Within two months, J started pinching his siblings, and Conner was not only ashamed, but also afraid. “When he hurt them, it provoked an anger in me I didn’t know I had,” she says. “I worried I’d lose it and spank him.”

She broke down in front of her husband, who worked all day and hadn’t witnessed the worst of J’s behavior. Matt tried to reassure her that it was just a rough transition and started spending more one-on-one time with J after work. But things didn’t get any better, and by early spring, J had escalated from pinching his siblings to hitting them. Aside from her social worker, Conner met with a therapist specializing in attachment disorder, a broad term used to describe an inability to build meaningful bonds. One form of the disorder can develop when a small child feels repeatedly abandoned or powerless–things it’s not hard to imagine a kid in an orphanage might experience. When Conner got pregnant again, the therapist explained that it was too much to expect a boy who had already been through so much to be a responsible older brother, and that ideally J needed to be either the only child or the youngest in a family. “I felt like the expert was telling me that since I had babies, it would be best to find J another home,” says Conner. But as difficult as the situation was, she shrank from that possibility, saying, “Forget it. He’s my son!”

Instead, she tried an earlier suggestion from the social worker, doing “24-hour eyes-on parenting”–basically, not letting J out of her sight. This went on for two months, until one afternoon when J began throwing a ball at the ceiling. “I said no,” Conner recalls, “but he wouldn’t stop. So I took it away.” J went into a wild, screaming tantrum, unintentionally hitting Conner’s nose with the back of his head: “I was bleeding heavily, sitting on the rug, crying. My two little ones were hiding behind a chair, crying. And it hit me: This is a domestic violence situation; if their dad had done this, I would take our children somewhere safe.”

At that instant, Conner faced a hard truth: “Forget love. Right then, I didn’t even like J,” she says. “In his short little life, he’d had a ton of loss. But it was clear to me that I was pushing him away to keep the smaller children safe. I couldn’t handle the idea of them being hurt. I could see that always putting the other kids’ safety above meeting J’s needs was creating a barrier between us. It was a painful situation.”

That night, she told Matt she thought they should find a new home for J: “We cried and cried. But he trusted my judgment.”

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Eight months after the Conners had brought J and their daughter from Haiti to Spokane, his new parents arrived in town. {snip}

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  • David Ashton

    “Toddlers become violent or throw tantrums because of their genes rather than their upbringing, scientists claimed yesterday…. University of Montreal [researcher into twin studies] Dr Eric Lacourse said: ‘Genetic factors explained a substantial part of individual differences in physical aggression’.” – Daily Mail, January 21, 2014, p.22.

    It is surely reasonable that adopted children should be placed with parents and siblings whom they resemble, including racial features.

    • Novus Ordo Horrorum

      He should write a book about that and call it “Not in our Screams.”

  • Fighting_Northern_Spirit

    This story is a metaphor for the racial situation in America. Sorry blacks, but it’s just not working out. We don’t want to have to spank you. Now get on the boat.

    • Oil Can Harry

      Who woulda thought a lawyer from the Pacific Northwest would be a clueless liberal?

      Who woulda thought a Haitian would be violent?

      Shocking article…

      • On the other hand, my daughter has never been spanked. She has misbehaved in the past, but I always explained “Don’t do that, and here’s why”. After my own upbringing, I would rather hang myself than hurt my child. It is mostly about safety. Kids often try stupid things that can get them sick or injured. Ariadne likes watching me weld, so I bought another arc helmet. She also likes watching me work in the basement, so I have her wear some of my old laboratory goggles, as the strap is adjustable.

        White and Asian children are naturally curious, but one shouldn’t hurt them when they mess up. I certainly don’t have the heart for it. I have locks on some of the tool boxes and chests, and the machine tools in the basement have removable power switches so a child or irresponsible adult literally can not turn them on.

        Just what did this libtard think that Haitian would grow up into? Another Haitian, one the same Happy Fun Folks who made Haiti into the Happy Fun Place it is?

        If someone’s bipedal Groidistani cockroach tried to climb onto my lap, I would stand up and walk away.

        • Alexandra1973

          Hey, if you can get your kids to behave without spanking, that’s good too. I think some kids are more likely than others to push the limits and test boundaries. Mine does all the time.

          • The one time Ariadne had tested Sayaka’s patience that far, I sat down on the sofa and cried my eyes out. I just wished I could die.

          • Copyright101

            More successful Afro-Caribbean mothers tend to rule their kids with a rod of iron – Victorian style. Spanking is certainly on the menu. They know what they are dealing with. Unlike deluded white middle class whites like Stacey.

          • GeneticsareDestiny

            I agree, I’ve always gotten the impression that black mothers (and fathers) are much better at understanding the reality of what works and what doesn’t with black children. Even the unsuccessful, ghetto welfare moms know that they must use spankings to keep their children even remotely in line, and the successful Afro-Caribbean mothers seem to combine the violence of ghetto mothering with the almost Tiger Mother-ish strict rules regarding education and their children’s friends.

            White moms who adopt or give birth to black children could take lessons from these mothers.

          • bobfairlane

            White women who give birth to black children should drown themselves in the nearest body of water.

          • Different children require different styles of parenting. Some respond only to the threat of violence and must be handled accordingly. Others have the intelligence and temperament to respond well to gentler discipline.

        • Lagerstrom

          Various family members have been urging us to spank (hit) ours. We don’t. I usually tell them that adults deserve to be spanked more than a three-year-old. Then they look at me funny.

          • Lots of those adults deserve to be spanked with an axe.

          • Lagerstrom

            Indeed. I meant a very hard spank. In some cases, one that proves fatal.

          • thomas edward

            Sir, as an older man and having come from a time when “spanking” was the norm, I can tell you it does the trick when used correctly. But there are too many people today who aren’t steady enough mentally to apply it. Like anything, when misused, it becomes an abuse. I would like to make a sexist point if possible. Spanking of any kind should never be used on a girl. You don’t get the desired results from hitting a girl. It’s always abuse when a girl is struck.

          • “It’s always abuse when a girl is struck.”
            –Thomas Edward

            Thank you for saying that. I not only completely believe that, but the act would also forever defile the man in his own soul as well.

          • Lagerstrom

            You’re right about the ‘mentally stable’ angle. Most adults, as far as I can tell, are just a sliver away from ‘losing it’ at the best of times. Then when their child doesn’t do exactly what they think they are supposed to do, the ‘adult’ will ‘lost it’ and beat the hell out of them.

      • Lagerstrom

        As ol’ Bugs Bunny used to say, “What an im-bessle, what an ultra-maroon!”

  • D.B. Cooper

    I just gotta shake my head after reading that pile of Haitian mud pie.
    Hey, Terminator. It was STACEY Connor, not Sarah Connor, you shmuck!

    • ncpride

      Now that’s funny. She should thank her lucky stars she got rid of him before he got any older. These loony liberals are slow to learn, if ever.

      • In a lot of these cases, the jokes write themselves.

        • Anglokraut

          You can laugh, or you can go crazy.

          I choose to laugh.

          • If you actually do go crazy the way I once did, you can still laugh about the whole matter. I tried everything else and laughter about human anguish helped me the most.

          • Fighting_Northern_Spirit

            I choose to laugh because I am crazy. 🙂

      • NordicHeritage

        It’s due in part to the fact that they live with rose colored glasses on all the time. For a large percentage of the population living in a fairy world is much better than facing the bitter truths of the universe. This is true in all facets of life unfortunately.

  • MekongDelta69

    Reality smacks another clueless leftist in the face…

    • Anglokraut

      She kept the Negro girl, so reality didn’t hit hard enough.

      • MekongDelta69

        If so, then reality must have just smacked her on the right side of her face.

        The left side will get theirs one day…

      • Luke N

        When the negro rapes her husband, reality will hit even harder.

        • Whitetrashgang

          Well in a couple years he will be back to rape and murder,

      • Fathercoughlin

        That girl will beging “dating” soon enough. Then she’ll get another dose…of reality.

      • Pelagian

        The boy is gone, but once the girl hits puberty … thats still too many different smells for one house. See the NPR article this issue on racial underarm and earwax smells.

      • The young negress will have many milestones ahead of her:

        First trick,
        First riff off a crack pipe
        First abortion
        First arrest
        Etc., . . .

        • Anglokraut

          With a pharmacist adoptive father, she might learn to be a great drug dealer. They’re just unlicensed pharmacists, doing the jobs that legal pharmacists won’t, after all. And if she gets your son hooked on Oxycontin, oh well.

          • Lots of that Oxycontin addiction in Colorado Springs. Also meth and black tar heroin. The last time I was in the county jail, on charges filed by mistake, because some AA hire in the DA’s office wasn’t reading his mail, there was a kid coming down off black tar heroin; he’d been smoking it. I had never seen anyone so amazingly miserable in my whole life. One of the Americanized Hispanics had been using Oxycontin. This is really just synthetic heroin, so he was a complete wreck as well.

            My old house sitter, who stole from me and is now in prison for raping children went down the tubes on drugs as well. Before he got into that garbage, he had been a good friend, the sort who would drive his own truck across town to help me pick up some furniture. His state sentence termination date is December 31 8888, which means if he was any more screwed, he’d be pregnant.

            Drugs suck.

          • ncpride

            They certainly do, and I’ve seen first hand what addiction to prescription narcotics will do to a person. My ex-brother in law started taking them legitimately after a serious back injury and surgery, but was never able to get off of them after he had healed. He has lost everything now, including his looks, job, wife, all his possessions, and his family will have nothing to do with him. He is also awaiting trial for dealing, and will probably do some serious time. His downward spiral has been painful and sad to watch, though he is no longer part of our family, but that’s still my nieces’ father.

          • I am glad that MJ is legal in Colorado.
            OTOH, it is sad to see on TV so many young (White) folks puffing away as if there are no consequences.

          • SoulInvictus

            Well, it’s a flower not a refined drug. Aside from laziness and laughing a lot, not a whole lot of consequence.

            I’m happy it’s legal in Colorado too. Can’t wait to see what happens when other states get jealous of all that tax and tourism money.
            I suspect Many families will be headed to Denver this year instead of Disney, because…er…mom and dad have always wanted to go skiing or something, yeeeeeah, that’s it. The mountains… cough cough.

          • The way I see mary jane is that if it is legal and regulated like alcohol, it won’t be adulterated with hard stuff.

    • Black Swan

      Reality will smack all of us in the face when this monster is released into an American school and later into society.

      He belongs with his people in Haiti, not in the United States, and I highly resent these leftoids who adopt African children as an avant-garde accessory only to have them grow up confused and angry and released onto American streets.

      • John R

        Yeah, really, like the one thing that we really need in this country is more Negroes.

      • silviosilver

        The celebrity fad of jetting off to darkest Africa to pick out a little black trophy adoptee is absolutely sickening for the values it promotes. Perhaps it’s dying off. I recall seeing one photo of Madonna lugging around her little turdler and she didn’t seem happy at all – perhaps like Miss Conner in this story, who admitted she didn’t even like her pet anymore..

  • Cannot Tell

    I’m black African and even I wouldn’t adopt a black child. I wouldn’t adopt an American one and I sure as hell wouldn’t go to another country to get one.

    • pcmustgo

      Russian and Romanian children are known to be equally screwed up due to detachment disorder. I’ve read stories of american parents “returning” russian children. In fact, it set up a diplomatic situation in Russian/US relations last time it happened.

      • Sick of it

        The problems with American adoptions of Russian children often involve the children possessing some sort of horrible disease and the American parent not being told. Folks usually want to know if they are adopting a disabled or dying child ahead of time.

        • NM156

          Exposure to pre-natal drug use and fetal alcohol syndrome are concerns with adoptees from E. Europe and Russia.

          • Copyright101

            Also a lot of Romanian orphans turned out to be unwanted Roma/Gypsy.

          • Gothicnight

            That is true, but a lot of ethnically Rumanians and Russians are invading West and northern Europe to steal, murder and commit severe atrocities against white westerners. I work with security and even though Im a white nationalist I have come to the conclusion that poles, Rumanians, Russians and more of the kind are the same sad and tragic fact of the mass invasion of all the welfare blood suckers and criminals to West and North Europe. I started to loath them. When I was in the foreign legion I also realized that the Slavic race is a huge threat to the western world. The Eastern Europe is a third world mentality and civilization. The things I saw in the legion the way the Russians and the rest of Slavic people behaved made me sick. It was non-human.

      • Luca

        So aside from “Detachment Disorder” when you combine that with a Sub-Saharan DNA Disorder, you get the proverbial “double whammy”.

      • They also frequently have fetal alcohol syndrome.

      • The Final Solution

        Americans are now banned from adopting Russian children if I’m not mistaken. There was some incident with a lady who just put the kid on a plane and sent him back. I think that was the last straw.

        • Our “good friend” Putin does not want childless white couples here in the US adopting Russian kids. Far better to lock them away in orphanages.

        • Katherine McChesney

          She sent him back because he was incorrigible.

          • Given Russia’s national drinking problem, I suspect that boy probably had fetal alcohol syndrome. That will screw up a kid’s mind.

          • A well-documented symptom of FAS is aggression and abnormally defiant behavior.

      • Gothicnight

        That is so true. The Slavic race can a lot of times have a very vile and lack of impulse control non-white behavior. Have experienced that so many times. The Slavic race will always be the most inferior race amongst the white Europeans. Oswald Spengler did not even consider Russians and Russia European at all.

  • Jesse James

    I don’t know about the rest of you but these stupid liberals make me sick. What did she think would happen? It reminds me of the story of the woman that raised a chimpanzee from a tiny baby right up until it went feral and ripped her neighbors face off.

    • Moooochelle

      I can understand going overseas to adopt white orphans, since they’re rare here. But our foster homes are stuffed with blacks. If white liberals simply must have a darky to complete their Christmas photos, they should be required to get it from their state foster system.

    • John R

      Yeah, I too have brought up that news story of the tragic chimp attack, which, actually seems symbolic of the entire racial situation in this country.

    • NM156

      Another well known chimp-gone-insane yarn is that of a childless California couple, who raised several chimps from infancy on their rural property. During a sit-down birthday party for one of the chimps, replete with candles and cake, hats, and noise makers, one chimp inspired the others to frenzy, killing the husband by group cannibalism. These adoptive parents of kids from Third World countries and anthropomorphic animal lovers inhabit the same collective brain. Their similarities aren’t circumstantial.

      • Jesse James

        Who knew a birthday party was culturally inappropriate for chimps. My bet? They thought the guy wanted to burn them up and acted to defend themselves. I don’t like idiots waving fire around me either.

        • Who Me?

          Judging from news reports, Africans don’t know how to act at birthday parties either. Many’s the report of gunshots, multiple dead bodies and injured people resulting from a 6 year old’s birthday party.

          • Alexandra1973

            Any time where two or more are gathered, you can count on obnoxious behavior.

  • DaveMed

    After she volunteered in an orphanage in poverty-torn Haiti in 2005, Conner and her husband, Matt, a pharmacist, decided to adopt two children…
    ________________________________________________________

    Are White liberals completely ignorant of the fact that there are plenty of poor communities right here in America (White or non-White) that need help?

    It’s so immoral to spend thousands of dollars on vaccinations and flight tickets when that money could have actually gone to help people.

    • Fathercoughlin

      I wonder if she went down to Haiti to sample some dark meat?

      • DaveMed

        Her husband’s a pharmacist. She’s probably too cautious to get mixed up in that.

        • RisingReich

          A cautious White woman would never choose to venture into a dark skinned, violent, disease ridden hell on earth that is Hati.

          • NM156

            In 2011, my wife went to Haiti with her employer, an eye surgeon, as part of a post-quake medical mission. They weren’t allowed out of the car while traveling through Port Au Prince, en route to the clinic in another city. A picture says much.

          • SoulInvictus

            You’re wrong on that one. Read an article on BBC’s site just this past month about Brit women going to Africa to sample native meat. Then bringing home HIV to their spouses.
            Apparently it’s a serious problem there…

            To quote Matrix Reloaded for all western men and culture,
            “Woman, you will be the death of me.”

          • Grantland

            They call them “milk-bottles” in the Caribbean. Middle-aged white women with a little cash. Disgusting whores.

          • SoulInvictus

            Rotund and filled with a viscous white liquid by a stranger on the doorstep, sounds about right.
            And yes, foul.

          • Jesse James

            Just more of some Western women’s hate jihad against the white men in their lives. Nothing like cuckolding your husband with an HIV positive Carribean JIGolo. Tell me again how guys are skipping marriage these days because THEY aren’t manning up?

          • SoulInvictus

            Couldn’t agree more.

          • The mainstream media has spent several decades demonizing white men. This is basically advertising, and advertising works, whether it is convincing folks that they should ruin their health smoking cigarettes or that their lives would be complete if only they had a gas-hog truck too big to fit in their garage.

    • PvtCharlieSlate

      You’ve touched on one of the reasons for my parting company with my church. They are very much involved in “mission trips to Haiti”. Sounds sort-of good on the surface but all they really do is cart along some second-hand clothes and school supplies and then do botch amateur jobs of manual labor like hanging sheetrock and painting plywood. To do this they have to be driven from CT to NYC and then flown to Haiti and fed and housed for a week or so and then transported back. To me this is a huge waste of resources and I told them so. I suggested that they send less people and take the money with them and hire locals. Was NOT well received. They were much too committed to having their “excellent adventure” and “poverty tourism” and coming home to tell war stories about their diarrhea.

      • Jesse James

        My brother is a contractor and his partner kept going on mission trips to Central America “to help out”. After one trip he came back and showed us photos that he was very proud of showing him building a house. Me and my brother looked at each other and burst out laughing at him. I said, “So you go down there and build a house for some single mother with kids whose husband is up here illegally building houses for your competitors by working off the books and allowing them to undercut your bids. Brilliant, you think those guys don’t know how to swing a hammer?” My brother and his partner don’t use illegals so the crack about being undercut really hit home.

    • SoulInvictus

      That was exactly my thought.
      The news is constantly filled with stories about domestic starvation and poverty, but you have to go to freaking Haiti to find someone to help (and even worse, import their problems here)…
      I never will understand the drive people have towards foreign aid instead of focusing on their own home. When We’re all sitting pretty, Then move on to the next closest neighbor if you’re feeling charitable. If we all had this attitude (including federal foreign aid policy) then the US, Canada, and Mexico would all be doing great and spreading the wealth down to SA and the Caribbean…

      • Jesse James

        It seems to me that most domestic hunger and poverty especially among children is caused by a combination of three things: 1) low intelligence, 2) emotional/mental issues of the parents and 3) Drug and alcohol abuse.

        • SoulInvictus

          Mostly yeah. But a lot is caused by kids getting sandbagged by worthless parents too.
          Just saying, rather than sending money of to Haiti or Africa, spend it here. Preferably on one of your own.

          • Jesse James

            I do feel for the kids, the parents are often beyond help and there is truth to the social workers talk about inter-generational transmission of poverty. What do you do other than take the kids away which creates a whole different set of problems and weakens parental rights over all our children? I think the best option is required birth control for anyone who can’t raise their own children without constant state assistance and intervention – what I think of as the Depo-Provara shot for assistance program.

          • SoulInvictus

            Birth control would go a Long way.
            How can you possibly parent a child alone and with a whole brood to manage? If poor folks were required to go on birth control as a condition of any kind of welfare, they’d be a world better off.

          • There is a charity that offers semi-permanent and permanent sterilization to drug addicts and drunks in exchange for cash rewards. Multicultists have criticized them as RAYCISS, of course.

    • Nevsky

      I wish the US could be divided into zones, one for guys like us and another for Libtards. Then I wouldn’t care about their “good doing”.

      • SoulInvictus

        We tried that. The response was Gettysburg.

    • Lagerstrom

      Are White liberals completely ignorant of the fact that there are plenty
      of poor communities right here in America (White or non-White) that
      need help?

      No points to be scored there, Dave.

      • Jesse James

        They wouldn’t want to help the so called “underclass” whites if they could because they are way to important to the DWLs sense of superiority. It is very important to them to be the good, enlightened whites.

  • sbuffalonative

    “Forget love. Right then, I didn’t even like J,”

    So many people have fallen for the lie that they can save the world but it’s not as simple as they’re led to believe.

    Conner’s therapist warned her that J likely wouldn’t weep or protest when he left. Indeed, he just walked away (and by all accounts is thriving with his new family). “I was cut apart,” Conner says. “But we were all so relieved to have some peace.”

    I wonder if he’s really thriving or this is what we’re being told.

    • Anglokraut

      I interpret this as the boy having more sense than this silly woman.
      However, this kid already sounds messed up; and if he actually isn’t, he may have a sub-70 IQ. Either way, this stupid woman (desperate to make up lost time for motherhood) and her beta-male husband have imported a permanent burden on the taxpayers.

    • libertarian1234

      “I wonder if he’s really thriving or this is what we’re being told.”

      That was my first thought when I read it.

      An out-of-control black is not going to “thrive” anywhere unless the people where he lives are as violent and nutty-acting as he is.

      Wait until the kid is old enough to hear Farrakhan, Wright, Al, Jesse, Dyson, Cornell West, et all, scream about how evil and horrible whites are, and they’re the reason he can’t learn anything.

    • Fathercoughlin

      he’s thriving.He has 3 kids of his own,LOL!!

    • Copyright101

      I wonder if he’s really thriving or this is what we’re being told.

      This the multikult fable in many contexts. Somewhere else, just round the corner, just off-stage, just over the horizon all is A-OK. If only you were here last week (before the riot, before the rape epidemic etc it was all great) Everybody lives together, there is no inter-racial crime etc etc

      • Jesse James

        Yes if we all would just double down and help them visualize the correct future it will come true any moment now. This is why they get so angry at conservative whites for noticing what is actually happening instead of say a pack of blacks who rape, torture, mutilate and murder some poor white person.

      • sbuffalonative

        Exactly.

        The ‘progressive’ Marxist, blacks and their apologists keep telling us they have THE solution, ANOTHER program, ANOTHER initiative, and this one is guaranteed to work!

        Every new program and initiative is seen as ‘the Magic Bullet’ that will finally solve black’s problems.

        How many programs have we had since school desegregation?

        I love the way the tossed in this throw away line without any in-depth follow up. This kid was a monster but he magically ‘thrived’ and yet there’s no further explanation.

        Shouldn’t THIS be the story? What was the secret of his ‘thriving’?

        The story also implies that this woman and her husband were the problem. It’s another way to blame whites for failing blacks.

    • William Krapek

      Exactly. I wondered that, too.

  • Northerner

    There’s a saying, “The years before five last the rest of their lives”. It’s possible to tell a child’s future personality from observing their early years. This family will probably be okay with their adopted daughter since she was only 1 year old, but they should have gotten more information about the boy.

  • Luke N

    “…engaged every person he met — he literally crawled into the laps of strangers,” says Conner. “But if I said ‘It’s time to go’ or anything that asserted I was in control, he’d rage, bang and scream for hours.”

    That is actually typical black behavior. Behave nice to everyone. But then, if they do not listen to you, get angry and wild. I have seen this before. Blacks behavior perfectly fine, like whites. But then, I maybe don’t hear their question or something, and they go wild. Amazing how this liberal moron saw the same thing.

    • pcmustgo

      More like Magnamious personalities. Behave in a way that makes them popular with everyone. “Soulful”

      • John R

        More like pushy and aggressive demanding personalities. “I like you! Hey, I want to hook up with you! Hey!!! WTF BITCH!!! I WANT TO F^&K YOU BITCH!!!”

    • evilsandmich

      My brother’s family has adopted some black cast-offs for reasons that escape me. They’re not liberal or whatnot and it shows through in the way that they run their house like a military camp where everything is well disciplined and dissent is not tolerated at all. Not my bag to be sure (local family services actually does their best to talk people out of it), but if someone wants to adopt black you’d better not be a squish.

  • thomas edward

    Of course, Conner is insane, but what really is lousy is the fiends like the “therapist specializing in attachment disorder” always circling to rob mentally deficient people like her and her moronic husband.

    • Ron Cheaters

      We can see that. But its a pretty thick bubble they live in.

  • Fathercoughlin

    “…she told Matt she thought they should find a new home for J:”We cried…BUT he trusted my judgement.” ” OK lets say I have a SWPL wife who is crazy about adopting black males. One day she tells me,this black is violent,I WANT TO GET RID OF HIM. I need to trust her judgement?? Like theres anything to discuss?! She tells me she wants the Haitian gone, I immediately break out the champagne,burst out in tears and say”Thank you!!Oh God Bless you!!” Wow.Just wow. He trusted her judgement. “Well,honey…if you’re sure…”

    • Anglokraut

      Beta male pretty much sums it up. An alpha would instinctively know better than to bring an invasive species’ predator spawn into his nest.

      • Who Me?

        Blacks aren’t too smart, but they have better sense than to adopt children from too far outside their own family and kin. And we certainly never hear of them getting into a mess like this, with kids from outside the country. Someone here said blacks don’t adopt children. Actually they do adopt a lot, just not legally. How many grandmothers, aunties, older cousins and so on are taking care of somebody else’s child–somebody related that is, not a stranger.

        • Anglokraut

          I think you just described the home life of nearly every top NFL prospect from the last 20 years!

        • That’s actually a very good point. Blacks never feel compelled to adopt white children from Europe or Russia. Only naive liberal whites feel like they’ve got to adopt every non-white child available and parade them around so that everyone can see how non-racist and ‘tolerant’ they are.

        • John R

          The fatal weakness of Whites: Altruism.

          • silviosilver

            Altruism-gone-wild (pardon the pun) is a problem, but in many cases it’s just glib, unthinking moral exhibitionists padding their resumes.

            I would like to thank “J” (the negroid toddler) for teaching this twit a lesson.

          • John R

            That may be part of it. But, sadly, I think it goes a lot deeper. We must have AA, MLK Day, tolerance for black criminals, end crime fighting techniques like “stop and frisk” because we “owe the blacks” and mustn’t be “unfair.” We cannot deport people who are here illegally, because we don’t want to be “unfair” to “people of color.” It’s pathological.

        • Jesse James

          I mentioned that blacks don’t adopt much, which is true when you are talking about the adoption system. I admit that you are correct that a there are a lot of black family members raising the children of younger members of their families. Unfortunately for us all there are a heck of a lot of white family members raising the abandoned children of their dysfunctional white relatives.

          • This is usually grandmothers who raise the kids while their daughter is strung out on drugs, in jail or in court-ordered rehab.

    • Who Me?

      Well, why not. He accepted her judgement in the first place: to GET the feral child and bring him into their home. So might as well trust her same judgement again and get rid of the kid when it begins to show it’s true, wild nature. Some people are just too dumb. She probably had fantasies about pretty, perfect white babies just lined up waiting for adoption like dolls in a store–sorry lady, that ain’t the way it happens.

  • One of my worst libtard colleagues at the university adopted TWO of these Negroid babies. He and his wife loved pushing the twin stroller around campus, I think to deliberately shock the conservatives like me, while winning browning points with fellow libtards.

    This latter motive for getting a Negroid baby is interesting. It’s like a status symbol–like one of Paris Hilton’s chihuahuas back in the day. I LOVE dogs, but chihuahuas are the worst–unclean and mean. Just like black babies.

    Now, the only thing his widow, an ugly feminist type, has are her two Negro “daughters,” both in their 30s. Blessing or punishment? You decide.

    • Anglokraut

      Some people are just too smart for their own good.

    • Fashion accessories.

      Use AR’s search engine for “TMZ Black Baby”

    • Cannot Tell

      One of my white friends has an adopted Ethiopian baby girl. He and his wife are genuinely nice people who devote their time to alleviating the suffering of others regardless of where they are from. One of his favorite quotes is: “Life simply so that others may simply live.”

      I used to have difficulty reconciling my desire to see people behave compassionately with my knowledge of race realism. I thought that compassion had to be eliminated for whites to stop adopting black children, but now I think differently. Whites should exercise compassion to their fellow whites. They don’t have to become cold-hearted; they should just be choosy about who they extend their compassion to.

      • JohnEngelman

        I feel compassion for those who remind me of myself. They are not all white, but they obey the law, and they do not have illegitimate children they cannot or will not support.

        Poverty and failure can happen to anyone. No one is forced to commit crimes and have illegitimate children.

      • RisingReich

        “Life simply so that others may simply live”?
        I’m sorry, but this ‘favorite’ quote is mindless drivel. At best it’s incredibly naive, and at worst believing that is out right dangerous and destructive.

        It patently flies in the face of human nature.

        • There are only two kinds of people who spout and believe a phrase like “live simply so that others may simply live.”

          1. Left wing dorks whose liberalism goes all the way down to the DNA, and therefore it’s not just a political weapon as it is with the “for me but not for thee” hypocrites

          2. People who have nothing and are sanctifying having nothing

          • SoulInvictus

            Ding ding ding. Give this man a prize.

        • Lagerstrom

          Whenever I hear a person utter such a stupid, pointless and naive statement, I ask them “What do you mean?” That’s when you can hear the wind whistling between their ears. They don’t even know. It’s as if they have a handbook of quotes on how to be a leftist moron.

      • Sick of it

        Consider the numerous poor and abused white children in this country who could use a good home and yet these people go for adopting non-white children…from another country entirely.

    • pcmustgo

      I know a white liberal family that adopted a black son who grew up to become a doctor. They had 5 biological children as well.

      • RisingReich

        Yippie. I suppose if we import millions of Hatians, every one of them will become doctors, engineers, inventors, and scientists?

        J is just an outlying undesirable data point you would have us believe?

        We’re not nearly that dumb here.

      • Whitetrashgang

        A Witch doctor?

      • benvad

        What ABC after school special was that one? Or where you watch reruns of Family Ties?

      • Alexandra1973

        It’s like saying, “Here’s one of the one percent, pay no attention to the other 99%.”

      • Yes, sometimes the black adopted children turn out to be productive members of society. But this is clearly the exception and not the norm. Most of them turn out somewhat confused, wondering why they were given up in the first place, and never quite identifying with the white family who adopted them. They are often troubled by it all, and some become very resentful.

      • 1stworlder

        The only doctor I ever meet that malpracticed himself to death was black

    • Rosenmops

      Nothing wrong with Chihuahuas. Don’t liken them to the hell-spawn this woman brought from Haiti.

    • benvad

      I’d pay for you to give a lecture series at Harvard, the comparison of Mexican dog breeds & Bantu breeds adjusting to life in human environments.

    • They like to parade around their newly acquired Bantu babies to show how non-racist and ‘tolerant’ they are. They get offended and lash out if anyone shows any disapproval or if someone makes an odd expression at their ugly babies, they quickly get miffed and complain how ‘racist’ society is.

    • r j p

      Hollywood handbag.

  • So CAL Snowman

    She’s lucky. No doubt in my mind that “J” would have grown up to murder all of them in their sleep. What I can’t comprehend is that she kept the black daughter! These people are beyond saving. They are too indoctrinated and their programming has overcome their natural instincts.

  • Kathy M

    Ever notice that it is whites and ONLY whites that hold these multiracial bliss fantasies? I have never NEVER heard of a single instance of any black, Asian, Hispaniard, or any other race of people holding these “racial rainbow” delusions! This crazy leftist woman’s diversity fantasies were shattered by reality.

    • benvad

      I live in Japan and I’ve rarely heard of people adopting children. When it does occur it’s for cousins etc.

      Only once did I hear of a person adopting a non relative. They just don’t do these things over here. They’ll never adopt a non Japanese, never!

      • Anglokraut

        Adult adoption happens though–it’s a way to keep family businesses in the family, but not run into the ground by idiot sons. Pretty clever, really–adopt competent management as sons of the founding family.

        • SoulInvictus

          You know, I never really thought about it before…but Japan and England are the greatest comparison/contrast example of what leftist thought does to a country.
          Alike in so many ways: island nation, (formerly) homogenous population, limited domestic resources, smart people, both devastated by WW2, both with their interesting medieval and empire phases, both primarily rely on the US for national defense.

          Now the UK is drowning in muslims, society crumbling, with an exploding underclass. Meanwhile Japan maintained tradition, largely excludes non-Japs, and is a world tech leader.

          The only substantive differences between the two are:
          A. The Rothschild element that have steadily sucked the soul out of the nation since Napoleon.
          B. Toxic leftist/liberal brainwashing.

          Funny how those two things go together like rum and coke, and destroy any nation that succumbs to them…

          • Lagerstrom

            Yes indeed. A and B go together like a ‘bagel with a schmeer.’

          • SoulInvictus

            Fun quote time:

            “Marx was a Jew. His manner of thought was Jewish. His keenness of intellect was Jewish; and one of his forebears was a most distinguished rabbi endowed with a powerful mind.” N.H. Bialik, in an address delivered at the Hebrew University, Jerusalem, May 11, 1933, which appeared in Lines of Communication, Palestine, July, 1933.

            “Some call it Marxism — I call it Judaism.” The American Bulletin, Rabbi S. Wise, May 5, 1935.

            “Marxism is the modern form of Jewish prophecy.” Reinhold Niebur, speech before the Jewish Institute of Religion, New York, October 3, 1934

            “The Bolshevist officials of Russia are Jews. The Russian Revolution with all its ghastly horrors was a Jewish movement.” The Jewish Chronicle, Sept. 22, 1922.

            “There is much in the fact of Bolshevism itself, in the fact that so
            many Jews are Bolshevists. The ideals of Bolshevism are consonant with many of the highest ideals of Judaism.” Jewish Chronicle London, April 4, 1919.

            “The Communist soul is the soul of Judaism. Hence it follows that,
            just as in the Russian revolution the triumph of Communism was the triumph of Judaism, so also in the triumph of fascism will triumph Judaism.” (A Program for the Jews and Humanity, Rabbi Harry Waton, p. 143-144).

          • corvinus

            Another point: In England, the women act like men and don’t give a fig about their appearance, unlike in Japan.

          • SoulInvictus

            Ah, the joys of feminism and lefty thought. Gone are the corsets and miladies, replaced by man-jawed, fashion-less, hefty and hostile man-lite.

        • benvad

          Yes, that is very true Mr.Anglokraut. Very very good!

          Also rich childless men or women will adopt a grown adult to have an instant family without the messiness of raising them.

      • GeneticsareDestiny

        Yes, East Asians have reasonable attitudes towards adoption. I hate when you hear bleeding heart liberal whites criticizing them for not wanting to invest their hard-earned money in other people’s (or especially other race’s) unwanted children.

        I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with adopting, or wanting to adopt, but there’s also nothing wrong with not wanting to. People who adopt should be aware that they’re making a decision that in evolutionary terms can only be described as pathological altruism (putting intense investment into children that do not carry your genes).

        And the less related to you the child is, the more pathological the altruism, meaning that if you cannot have children yourself, it’s best to adopt a child of your own race and ethnicity.

        Non-blacks adopting blacks is just insanity.

        • benvad

          Smartest thing I’ve ever heard.

        • benvad

          I never hear of jews adopting Blacks.

          • benvad

            Luis you are correct, but they’ll never get a pure blood. Too risky for Those neurotic sycophants.

        • Divorced east Asian women are usually astonished when a white man would accept their kids from the previous marriage. One of my friends married a divorced Chinese gal, and took in her daughter. He just figured the little girl was part of the package and treated her as if she was his own daughter. Since they now have three biological kids of their own, I reckon he got a good deal; he got a free babysitter out of it.

          The last time we spoke, his wife asked me “Why are white men so nice?”

    • You’re right! Only whites are foolish enough to intentionally adopt black babies from the world’s worst societal toilet bowls, and then pat themselves on the back thinking they’ve done a good deed. It’s an insane form altruism, and far too many whites suffer from it.

      It wasn’t as prevalent among whites 60 years ago because Americans weren’t as deeply polluted by liberalism at the time. But now liberalism and multiculturalism has made so many whites act looney – and this rage of adopting Bantu babies is all a part of it.

    • r j p

      70+% of black women don’t need to adopt.
      They just spread their legs.
      The semen rolls in and 9 months later, in rolls a bigger welfare check.

      • BonV.Vant

        they play the “knocked up” game

      • Anglokraut

        Way faster than legal adoption, and with a positive cash flow to boot.

    • Wilmoto

      I can only think off one…Michael Jackson.

  • Tim

    The most painful moment in life is when a child realizes that he`s not “to the manor born…”

  • Black Swan

    These clueless liberals should not be let off the hook so easily. She brought a violent, uncontrollable monster into this country from Haiti and now the rest of us have to deal with him.
    What do you think this kid is going to be like when he’s a teenager or young adult? Conner and any others of her liberal kind should be made 100% responsible and forced to pay for any damages this kid causes in the future, including robbery, rape, assaults, and carjackings.

    I really do hate these clueless leftoids who leave such destruction in their wake.

    • benvad

      She should be have to serve time with this sob

  • dd121

    Send her the link. I’ll bet she becomes a top AmRen poster.

  • nativist

    I’m a Spokane native, and have seen transracial adoption
    become increasingly common here among the professional
    classes. What seems to be the most chic among the quiche
    and brie set is a Chinese girl. This is in spite of the fact
    that I have been told by people from the caring and sharing
    agencies that there is an abundance of white children
    needing adoption. And so white self-immolation proceeds.,

    • evilsandmich

      A local ‘group home’ that I visited with missus some years back was white to a kid and they were a very well behaved group. It made me wonder if some ‘not for profits’ were hording all the good kids for themselves so that they could collect an easily earned stipend while leaving the rejects with the county.

  • Pelagian

    Re:

    “attachment disorder, a broad term used to describe an inability to build meaningful bonds.” … “One form of the disorder can develop when a small child feels repeatedly abandoned or powerless–things it’s not hard to imagine a kid in an orphanage might experience. “

    I wonder why it wouldn’t actually cause them to develop bonds more quickly. I mean the human survival instinct is strong. When you realize That you need other human beings to survive, wouldn’t you develop skills to make sure that people like you?

    That certainly isn’t the way that orphans are portrayed in popular Western literature. Great Expectations, Little Orphan Annie, Christmas Comes but Once a Year, etc., they are always On their best behavior, trying to please.Indeed, the proverbial model for an ill behaved kid up until the late 20th century, was a spoiled rotten rich kid

  • Pelagian

    Re:

    “attachment disorder, a broad term used to describe an inability to build meaningful bonds.” … “One form of the disorder can develop when a small child feels repeatedly abandoned or powerless–things it’s not hard to imagine a kid in an orphanage might experience. “

    I wonder why it wouldn’t actually cause them to develop bonds more quickly and easily? I mean, the human survival instinct is strong. When you realize That you need other human beings to survive, wouldn’t you develop skills to make sure that people like you?

    That certainly isn’t the way that orphans are portrayed in popular Western literature. Great Expectations, Little Orphan Annie, Christmas Comes but Once a Year, etc., they are always On their best behavior, trying to please.Indeed, the proverbial model for an ill behaved kid up until the late 20th century, was a spoiled rotten rich kid

  • JDInSanD

    I read part of the original article. The couple has just become foster parents of a three year old.

    I thought this was funny, “At one point, Matt was introduced to someone who said, ‘Oh, right — the family that dumped that kid.’ “

  • RisingReich

    This woman here sort of learned a lesson. At least she choose her biological children over her imported monster. As I was reading, I was worried initially that she would choose the monster of her own offspring. That’s how much faith I have in the indoctrinated White Woman of modern times.

    Also on a side note – I’ve traveled all around Washington state in the last year, and find it to be highly multiracial. Makes me wonder about that PNW Front stuff.

    • SoulInvictus

      ” Makes me wonder about that PNW Front stuff.”

      You mean aside from the fact that the local populace would be among the most opposed to the concept in the entire US?
      Or the impending water shortage?
      Or that it’s in a cold region and many scientists are predicting a little ice age?
      Or that it sits on top of a super volcano?

      The NorthWest homeland people annoy the crap out of me because it is stupid for so many reasons…

      • Jesse James

        You are right about the non-viability of that area for a large population. My theory is that to concentrate too many white ethno-nationalist there would invite the same kind of genocidal starvation policy that Stalin’s Jewish agents used against the people of the Ukraine in the Holdomor of 1932-33. Also they have a short growing season and have a problem with large fires that will be exacerbated by the unstoppable water shortage. I like the idea that there are a lot of whites concentrated in that area but I don’t think it would be very smart for us all to move there. Another problem is that their two main ports Seattle and Portland are liberal progressive strongholds and you add the problem of being possibly cut off from the ocean.

        • SoulInvictus

          Yup, it’s all around stupid.
          And that’s assuming Yellowstone doesn’t pop and conveniently annihilate the huge chunk of white humanity living within 1000 miles of it once consolidated there.

        • I think consolidating Whites in one area is an invitation to genocide. We already have our homelands; now we just have to take them back.

      • The big one is in Wyoming.

    • Jesse James

      I will tell you one thing to my eternal shame, the color line in the South at least for white women seems to have completely collapsed. I can’t tell you how many young white women I see dating blacks – and middle aged divorcees. Also an accompanying phenomenon, the older white women pushing strollers at the mall filled with their little mulatto grandchildren. These women often look haggard and are occasionally accompanied by their flippity gidgit daughters but almost never is the black gene stealer present. Like the cowbird he had dropped his “egg” into someone else’s nest to be cared for and he is off shagging some other stupid little white girl.

  • Pro_Whitey

    Now a real happy ending would be the kids going back to Haiti.

  • connorhus

    At least she got rid of him before he started raping her real children. Not a moment too soon.

    • r j p

      Would have only been 3 years ….

  • benvad

    Educated idiot importing trouble to the US. hey Mr. Anonymous is this what you mean by not appreciating their hosts?

    Attacking and causing physical harm?

  • LovelyNordicHeidi

    Stacey Conner, a 41-year-old mom and former attorney from Spokane, Wash., dreamed of having a large family with biological and adopted kids.

    I wish all Whites dreamed of having a large family with ONLY White kids.

    • Who Me?

      Why both biological and adopted? If you’ve got the money to raise adopted kids, making your own is easy, and fun to boot!

      • LovelyNordicHeidi

        The relationship with biological kids feels natural. But the relationship with adopted kids, esp. of another race, feels forced.

        • jeffaral

          If I was a motherless child I would be very happy being adopted by you Heidi.

        • ncpride

          Not according to Angelina Jolie. She did an interview a few years back where she explained she felt more of a connection to her adopted darkie children than her own biological child with Pitt. She went on to call her own daughter an ‘outcast’ in their family because of her blonde hair and blue eyes, how she really didn’t want her, and the privilege she was born into. Google ‘Jolie calls daughter outcast’…I believe the interview was published in Look magazine. Her statements were shocking even for a rabid liberal like her.

          • NordicHeritage

            well, she is a cfr member so one can imagine they are all in on the agenda 21 crap.

          • Andy

            Poor kid! It looks like she’s always dressed as a boy. Jolie’s probably hoping she’ll be a lesbian so she’s not such an embarrassment to the family.

          • Lagerstrom

            Who cares what stupid people do or think. I do feel sorry for her ‘biological child’ (I hate that term) though.

          • ncpride

            Me, too. That poor kid will probably grow up with serious emotional issues because of Jolie’s callousness and indifference toward her. Sad.

          • LovelyNordicHeidi

            That says more about Angelina Jolie than about her child.

            The exception proves the general rule:

            Normal mothers have a more natural relationship with their own children than adopted children (esp. of another race), as I said before.

          • ncpride

            Oh, I absolutely agree and no doubt there is nothing normal about Jolie to express such barely suppressed contempt and rage toward her own child. I thought you might find that interview just as outrageous as I did.

          • LovelyNordicHeidi

            I thought you might find that interview just as outrageous as I did.

            I am disgusted with this society, and that interview is an example of what makes me disgusted.

          • silviosilver

            She is disgusting, but unsurprising. You have to a couple of screws loose to even consider raising a ridiculous zoo ‘family’ like hers, let alone to actually follow through on it. If you don’t mind a bit of schadenfreude you can always take heart that ultimately the joke is on them and that no matter how much your contempt enrages them there’s nothing they can really do about it. So any leftards raising negroids reading this, enjoy!

  • Ella

    Some hefty tantrums are a normal part of toddler years. What real parent has not been bruised, bashed in the nose, bit or hit by a chair/object? Then, she adopts a child with serious problems and bring him to a totally unknown culture? And, she is educated, in what??????

  • Dave4088

    Not really a happy ending. A new set of white, leftist, multicult worshipping loons adopted J and will keep him in America to wreak even more havoc when he matures. I wonder how many women he will rape and people he will injure or kill? Even if he isn’t violent, then taxpayers will foot the bill to the tune of millions for his lifelong welfare, food stamp and medicaid payments.

  • mrcan

    Perhaps deep down she hopes he can be the future dad of her daughter when she becomes a baby momma! If he stayed adopted it would be unlikely

  • LovelyNordicHeidi

    When Conner got pregnant again, the therapist explained that it was too much to expect a boy who had already been through so much to be a responsible older brother, and that ideally J needed to be either the only child or the youngest in a family.

    1. Always assuming that it’s because of environmental causes…..

    2. Always coming up with a solution that reduces the White fertility rate…..

    • Ella

      Her accessory did not match her family. Hmm, the Libtard must have been colour blind during the adoption.

      • NordicHeritage

        Yeah, it’s black baby brought to you by your local non profit.

      • SoulInvictus

        I figured this topic would set the female members here off big time.
        Love it when you all get involved.

    • Who Me?

      He couldn’t have stayed with the Connor family, true, but as “a child who had been through so much” the only thing the therapist could come up with was to add more turmoil to the child’s life and spread the misery around by shuffling him off to another White family? Not to mention really giving the remaining Connor children something to think about. “Wow, look what happened to J. If we mess up, they’ll get rid of us, too.” What about finding a nice Haitian family to take J? That never occurred to anybody? True, they might have to send all the way to Florida to find some Haitians, (they’re not thick on the ground in Spokane) but it sounds like the second set of adoptive parents came from somewhere quite a ways away anyway.

  • Dave4088

    I remember seeing the video of Charlize Theron after she adopted her black African baby boy and she looked very unhappy and as if she wanted to drop him on the concrete. Most new mothers are beaming with pride, but not in this case.

    It seems to be a rite of passage with white Hollywood actors and actresses to adopt black babies and something they do only to stay in the good graces of the Norwegian leftists who control the television and movies industry.

    • Jerrybear

      Actresses like Theron, Bullock, and Jolie really don’t have to deal with their little Bantus like a normal person would. I’m sure they all have 24 hour nannies for their adopted savages as well as their biological children like in Angelina’s case.

    • William Krapek

      “Norwegian.” Heh. You funny guy!

      🙂

  • Funruffian

    I would imagine the new parents were stupid enough to believe this little monster could be rehabilitated. But rehab for a child of this nature and genetic placement is only successful for about 2% of the time. This seemingly intelligent woman bought into the Diversity scam hook line and sinker. She learned the hard way and nearly paid dearly for it.

    • Einsatzgrenadier

      She kept the black girl, so she didn’t really learn anything at all.

      • LovelyNordicHeidi

        I figured that as well. These people are progressive liberals who base their judgements upon an individual’s character rather than race. They are such noble people that they are helping their own race to die out more quickly.

        • NordicHeritage

          It is just a fad that people have been told is the in thing to do right now. And unfortunately women are more prone to the advertising ploys that are being used against us at this time.

      • KevinPhillipsBong

        In a few years, her black daughter will get knocked up by some inner city thug. She’ll give birf to a black baby boy, name it J, and abandon it at white mom and dad’s house. Let’s see them try to get rid of this one. They’re screwed.

      • Funruffian

        This is probably the best way to destroy the family tree, the sanctity of the household and the sanity of your marriage.
        TV psychologists always talk about dysfunctional families and the dynamics of the weird relationships, co-dependency, and drugs. But adopting muds into your White family is just a more tangible and potent way to bring chaos, dread and angst in a much quicker fashion. You thought your family was hellacious? Try adopting a couple of Haitians or Africans.

  • LovelyNordicHeidi

    We cried and cried. But he trusted my judgment

    They should have “cried and cried” for their own race which is endangered.

  • DudeWheresMyCountry?

    I know there is no God, do you know how? If there was such a deity he (or she, or it) would no doubt send a category 12 hurricane and 10.5 magnitude earthquake simultaneously at Haiti, wiping that side of Hispaniola clean of human life.

  • Max

    I’m confident tht she could’ve found one of those suave, black, genius computer-designer/CEO’s that are so common to personally accommodate her need to breed more black babies . Now, HOW multicultural is THAT?!

  • Max

    Oh no. Those studies have all been soundly discredited.

    Rings the egalitarian leftist echo.

  • libertarian1234

    “We put their photo on the refrigerator, and he’d say, ‘That’s my new mom. That’s my new sister.’ ”

    Yes, and in a few years he’ll be saying, “That’s my new parole officer.”

    When the new family goes through about a half million dollars in legal fees, law suits and court costs and paying private tutors, and he still can’t do basic math or read at an acceptable level, then they can look forward to seeing him in his orange jump suit when they visit him in prison.

    That is if he doesn’t kill both of them first.

    These liberal white weenies are beset with some serious mental disorders, especially since nature has originally programmed them to nurture and care for people like themselves. Anything else is seriously abnormal.

    Or do they regard them more as pets than children?

    I wonder if they feel so morally superior they think that because they have so much love and tolerance it will be their ticket to a rewarding afterlife?

  • Max

    The demon seed was probably adopted into yet another white fool’s home or some foster-home where the get a few hundred a month to ignore the pathology.

    They should send the kid back to Haiti with a billing invoice.

  • Jack Whistler

    The Bantu is, and always has been a wild African animal of which only the smallest percentage are at all capable of existing in civilized society. Bringing a Bantu child into your home is no less foolish than attempting to civilize a wolf as though it were a dog, and trusting it around your children. A wild animal is a wild animal, and is more ill-suited to civilization than the civilized are to the wild.

    How many times must whites try and fail to civilize these wild animals before it becomes apparent to all that it cannot be done? Some people it seems must always learn a lesson first-hand, while history remains forever a mystery.

  • Conrad

    Liberals exist in, and cling to, a faddish utopian dreamland that blinds them to the realities of life. Females respond to this utopian fantasy most eagerly, especially liberal females. Liberal men (if we can call them that) are nearly as bad. Most, it seems, lack the hormones that should enable them to be the head of the household, and restrain this chimerical fetish of the female. On the whole, they rejoice in their ability to ignore the realities of life and hate those that will not join them in their life destroying delusions. Unfortunately these are the people that are now holding the reins of power and persist in steering America, nay the world, into ruin.

    • Jack Whistler

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    • BonV.Vant

      I’ve said something similar before. They are weaklings that live in fear. They are like the child in a burning house that hides in the closet instead of taking effective action and finding it’s way out of the house. These children will often fight and resist a fireman who finds them and tries to take them to safety. They escape their fear of an unpleasant reality and comfort themselves with illusions.

      Liberals have an inkling that blacks are fundamentally different and very dangerous. Deep down inside they know that race is a line which can never be wished away and makes other people their natural enemies when resources get scarce and often times even when there is plenty. Liberals love to think they are smart, and they love to think their “intellect” can conquer these unpleasant realties. Sometimes it takes a lot of pain and experience for them to see the folly of their ways. Before they reach that point of self examination though, they enjoy their falsely perceived position of moral and intellectual superiority.

      Far from being moral or intellectual, they are judgmental and infantile. They cling to a notion of the world that is as false and as simplistic as the Disney animation of Lions and Hyenas in “The Lion King” or the other assorted animals in animated movies such as “The Jungle Book”. They can not face the reality of what other races are or of the danger they present. They would rather believe in a sugar coated fairy tale, one that is constantly peddled by the media but is contradicted by daily reality.Even after they perceive the reality of race, especially the nature of the negro, it still takes them time to accept it.Even more than the reality of race they fear their feelings of disgust and dislike and rejection that the “other” arouses in themselves . Perception of the nature of the negro comes first. Dealing with the natural and correct feelings of rejection and alienation from that race comes second. Some never get through the second part. They choose to remain in the closet and pretend it is THEY themselves who have the problem, that they do not actually see things correctly, that they have “bias ” etc. They are like the child that would prefer to cling to their illusions even though they are choking on smoke and feeling the heat.

  • BonV.Vant

    Sounds like “J” was a typical negro displaying typical negro behavior

    • benvad

      Can’t expect a jackal not to act like a jackal. It’s as clear as that.

  • Jerrybear

    “When he hurt them, it provoked an anger in me I didn’t know I had,” she says. “I worried I’d lose it and spank him.”

    We certainly wouldn’t want that would we? You can’t punish unruly kids with a good old fashioned spanking and be a good progressive. That’s the only thing the little savage would respond to because Blacks require a lot more discipline

    • Who Me?

      I think she’s playing with words here. What she probably meant but didn’t dare say is she was *afraid she’d lose it and start beating the brat and keep on till he was dead*. Normal people know the difference between a pop on the ass and a beating. This little thug aroused her “inner mama bear” and she needed to protect her “real babies” from it, whether she knew it or not.

  • italian guy

    Liberals are simply stupid, they treat other races as inanimate objects and get shocked when they act they way they do, i always say this to liberals: “come tu sai che loro sono neri, loro sanno che tu sei bianco” it means “as you know that they are black, they know that you are white”. They see racial relations as one-way thing: whites are racist, whites need to bow and give everything to non-whites, whites need to be mixed out of existence so racism will die etc. bunch of fools all of them.

  • MBlanc46

    Perhaps he is a psychologically disturbed child, or perhaps it’s just TNB.

    • BonV.Vant

      It is just TNB

    • Sloppo

      Or both.

      • Alexandra1973

        Is there a difference?

  • This woman was a ‘career professional’ who, like so many modern women, decided to have babies late in life. When her biological clock hit its expiration date, she probably panicked and thought she would solve her motherly instincts by adopting a Bantu baby. After all, they’re just like us, right? A little love and attention will make him turn out just as normal and well-adjusted as if he had been physically born to me, right? WRONG!

    This white woman believed the liberal lie that she could have it all – a career woman, a mother, and cranking out babies like there’s no tomorrow. Truth is, she should have stayed home and produced healthy babies while she had the chance. Good Lord, if there’s one thing we need more of it’s White babies – and not more adopted Bantus!

    If whites are going to survive as a race of people, we’ve got to stop all this negro worship, this misguided altruism, this non-white adoption craze, and start producing large white families. We’ve got to stop all this loose divorce, keep our white families together, and encourage our people to have lots and lots of white babies. It might mean that we have to sacrifice a little more of our comforts, but the results will benefit all of us.

    • BonV.Vant

      The liberal lie goes deeper than just “they can have it all”. IT tells women that they can accomplish anything. It tells all liberals that they are so smart and correct that they can make anything they want to happen happen. This just goes to show how foolish and pathetically powerless they really are. These are people that think they are so powerful that they can destroy the world by their actions, whether they drive a car or use an aerosol can. These are people who are saturated with vanity and stupidity. They are a joke really. There will come a day when people will read about what these kinds thought and did and they will be the laughingstock of history.

    • Who Me?

      It’s worse than that–she’s still young, She had one biological child while waiting for the Bantus to clear customs, and another biological child awhile after the Bantus arrived. She should be having more White babies, and give the other black, the girl, to a home where she is truly wanted for herself and not as an accessory. But, wait, Ms. Connor is a loony lefty liberal, so maybe not…

  • Alexandra1973

    And she was afraid she might spank him? Wow. Talk about a leftie loon. In my opinion people like that shouldn’t have kids.

    • Max

      People like her parents shouldn’t have had kids.

  • John R

    Yep. And this one little story just sums up the issues of blacks being raised and schooled around whites. “I felt I had to be more concerned with my own children’s safety…” Yep, lady; anyone on this website could have told you that!

  • John R

    Good point. And another historical fact that is glossed over in our liberal history books.

  • IstvanIN

    The anger she felt and the “pushing away” were her real maternal instincts kicking in. A female can adopt babies of another species, we have all seen dogs adopt kittens, as an example, but when push comes to shove a mother wants to protect her own, even if she is too “smart” to realize it”.

    • benvad

      The problem I have is when they inflict their experiments on society, then it becomes our problem one way or another. We end up paying for her altruistic idiocy.

  • Fighting_Northern_Spirit

    Then they started on the mulattoes. Had to eradicate every last trace of Whiteness.

  • The Final Solution

    These white people who adopt colored children are vile scumbags. They are most certainly mentally ill. What kind of person would want a child who looks and behaves completely alien to them? Only in the most rare occasions will you find this kind of interspecies adoption in the animal kingdom. And even then it happens among similar species.

    • Sloppo

      Most of them are not all vile scumbags. I believe most are good people who have been badly deceived. I believe this may be the best example of the road to hell being paved with good intentions.

    • FransSusan

      I agree with Sloppo. They’re delusional rather than vile scumbags. It’s as though they believe in unicorns and fairies, and if only these black kids had a healthy, stable white family to live in, they’d turn into righteous humans. They truly believe this and they see us, those of us who are realistic and logical, as insensitive and uncaring. So no I don’t believe they’re scumbags. I believe they have a screw loose in those bleeding heart brains.

      • Pelagian

        Good comment. Please make your Disqus account able to be followed.

        • FransSusan

          How?

  • NM156

    Has any university neuro dept. conducted imaging studies on white liberals’ brains?

    • PvtCharlieSlate

      I don’t think that neuro depts are usually equipped with electron microscopes. /sarc.

    • WR_the_realist

      I have the very vague recollection of a study (it may have been posted here on Amren) showing that conservatives had a more active amygdala, the part of your brain that processes fear. This was presented in the article as a positive thing for liberals, as that meant they were more tolerant and accepting of the other. Well, that mother had to learn the hard way why we evolved an amygdala in the first place.

  • Copyright101

    I suppose it would be too much to hope that ‘J’ was returned to his natural habitat in Haiti rather than being the cuckoo in the nest of another white family?

  • Nevsky

    I’ve spoken once to one black, gay (!!) guy who was adopted by a white liberal family who already had their biological son. From what he told me him and his white “brother” didn’t really get alone, even though they were raised together from a very young age.

    He said they even had violent fights with him and from what I understood and felt from his story – they kinda resent each other and rarely communicate.

    I can only imagine how much it hurts both biological and adoptive kids. How would you feel when growing up you see your parents caring for and loving someone who looks nothing like you?

    Liberalism is a mental disease indeed.

  • SoulInvictus

    Hey, my husband has a good job, I’ve been lucky enough to have kids…
    Life just isn’t hard enough.
    I think I’ll adopt some third world hellions to bloody my nose on the odd occasion and keep me grounded… what could go wrong. It’s only my family at stake.

  • GeneticsareDestiny

    Yes, she does not understand. There is no indication that she got rid of her other Haitian adopted child (the one-year-old girl), which she would have done if she really understood.

    At least that child is female and as young as the white children. It makes it less likely that she will harm her white siblings, but I still would not personally risk it.

    I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Non-blacks who adopt black children (especially male ones) are essentially bringing a ticking time bomb into their homes. It may never go off (said child could be perfectly gentle and non-violent), but the chances are so much higher that it will as compared to a white child.

  • Lagerstrom

    Initially this silly woman was happy to win the ‘Oxfam win a black baby raffle’, but she didn’t like the prize, so she gave it back. However, the result has given this ‘idiotic attention-seeker-on therapy’ the attention she obviously craves.

  • Ograf

    People are always trying to bring wild animals in their homes and make pets out of them. It doesn’t work. The lion will maul you, the snake will bite you, and the culture of whatever mutt you select will come out. I don’t really feel sorry for this woman , as she is stupid to begin with. Maybe next time she should try a somalian.

  • itdoesnotmatter

    A Berkeley libtard neighbor couple adopted a black baby girl.
    At about nine years this kid became a violent little devil who terrorized her parents, the biological kids in the family and our quiet neighborhood.
    The couple had her placed in a juvie facility for out of control kids, but she continued to find her way back, break into the house, and trash the place. Nothing would stop her.
    This family finally sold their home and moved to Provence, France.
    This is how it goes. Otherwise intelligent, but naive people bringing alien, feral beings into a civilized setting for what?
    Rehab? Appearance? As pets?
    So it goes with our country, as more bantus, black Puerto Ricans, Dominicans are brought to these shores.

    • Lada Belyy

      pets
      That’s my vote.
      White folk like to rescue things. dogs, cats, elephants, dolphins, whales, snail darters, negros, you name it.
      White people will rescue anything, except their own race.
      Stop White genocide.

      • kikz

        y, and when you adopt past a certain age of the animal, you inherit the mental/emotional problems their previous environs caused…… sad fact, some are just insurmountable.

  • archer

    She don’t know it but by giving him back she saved herself and her family from becoming a murder statistic.

  • Frank_DeScushin

    “But it was clear to me that I was pushing him away to keep the smaller children safe.”

    Therein lies the reason for Jim Crow laws.

  • DJ

    Commonsense should have informed the parents you don’t mix domesticated children with wild untamable children.

    And to think she was attorney?

    This just goes to show you that people with high IQ are quite capable of making the most ignorant decisions known to mankind. Invariably they are college educated white-liberals(read: they were indoctrinated in PC reeducation camps). IOWs, they were deliberately taught to make bad decisions especially WRT the reality of racial differences.

  • Vito Powers

    The article states that she is 41 years old so she was born in 1973. Her generation was subjected, even brutalized, with the “Racism is the greatest evil ever” and to be called or thought of as “racist” is the most horrible thing ever. This woman and her husband met cold, hard reality head-on. Her comment says it all “Having an instant multicultural family was magical for about two weeks.” Most likely, during her lifetime, she never worked or interacted in any meaningful way with minorities, especially the third-world kind.

    • evilsandmich

      Same age and I know where you’re coming from. Moving to Cleveland, Oh disabused me of those notions right quick.

    • This idiot is younger than I am! What the heck happened to having one’s OWN kids?

  • Who Me?

    The woman is NOT from Seattle, but from SPOKANE, WA, a good 375 miles away from Seattle, on the other side of the state. They are crazy in Seattle, yes. They are a special kind of crazy in Spokane–I think it’s something in the water up there.

  • SFLBIB

    “I worried I’d lose it and spank him.”

    There is her problem, right there: Reading too much Dr. Spock.

  • William Krapek

    I’ve seen those outbursts here in Texas; but with Mexican kids. And only Mexican kids. 🙂 It’s stunning. There isn’t ever any blubbering as the kid tries to get his anger under control – just crying and crying and crying and crying and screaming and screaming and screaming and screaming. No brakes on that anger whatsoever. Makes me want to pop them into a cage and drop them into a lake.

    • Lada Belyy

      Assuming that J’s behavior was actually a result of social influence, abandonment, etc., initially, I dismissed the article. But, I think you’ve hit on something relevant. “No brakes…” We are all affected by environmental stimuli. Anger, and other emotions, are normal reactions. However, could a propensity to suppress emotive reactions (i.e., apply brakes) actually be a type of genetically inherited survival mechanism?

      • William Krapek

        It’s the spindle neurons that send the fast signals from our prefrontal cortex – our “thinking” brain – back to the amygdala; which is the seat of anger. I think this suppressing/connecting mechanism is more developed in Whites than Hispanics and Blacks. This is both why we can suppress our anger and turn use it as a rocket fuel for creation.

    • kikz

      muslim males as well……..and even a few asian boys. the mothers have been conditioned not to interfere w/the males acting out.

      something fun to practice and perfect.. the stare of death.. not sure if males can perfect it, but mom’s sure can, it can usually stop a wind-up in mid wail, at least long enough to extract yourself from the area…..

      • William Krapek

        Never knew about them. Thanks of the head’s up they’re showing up in huge numbers here in Texas. Looks like I’m hitting the jackpot.

        When we finally get the common sense to stand up for ourselves, I look forward to driving them all out of the country.

        • kikz

          y, William, i’m not sure why such a noticeable influx of late?

          I remember one incident, years ago in my kids’ ele. one muslim boy stopped in front of a White teacher, put out his foot, pointed.. and demanded she tie his shoe. not asked.. demanded while pointing… like Yul Brenner as the King of Siam. The kids told me many of the muslim boys are like that, w/their sisters, and other non-related females, doesn’t matter their age. Allah’s gift as it were…eyeroll.

          • William Krapek

            Not sure why they’re coming into Dallas all of a sudden.

            God I really hate the people who run this country.

  • Who Me?

    I also know a family. The son is a nuclear physicist, the daughter is a doctor (M.D.) She is married to another doctor, who is the son of an attorney, with siblings who are also doctors and attorneys. GOOD, GOOD genes here. These two clueless types decided not to have children of their own, and have gone off to some hellhole corner of Africa to become medical missionaries. They have adopted 6 various African orphans, and wasted all those superb genetics nature and their White ancestors gave them. All I can say in their favor is they haven’t (yet anyway) imported their “family” back to the U.S.

    • corvinus

      Sounds to me as if the husband is a beta male with no spine, as it’s typically the wife who has to be restrained from pathological altruism and fuzzy do-gooder delusions.

    • Anglokraut

      Sounds like the two in this anecdote are actually the weakest branches in this family; so long as this woman’s brother–the physicist–breeds true, and her MD husband’s siblings also breed true, the good genes are still in play.
      I’m really into thoroughbred racing and consider the study of the breed one of my favorite past-times. One thing a breeder has to learn is that so long as an expensive sire has a lower priced sibling, those valuable genes are still priced to move.

  • scutum

    The lesson here for this couple and all other left wing airheads is this. The genetic code will not be surpressed or denied. In the end it will always over ride everything else, and a Negro will always act like a Negro.

  • NothingMan00

    “Having an instant multicultural family was magical,” Conner says, “for about two weeks.”

    I thought that was a sarcastic introductory line from Amren, not an actual quote from a person in the article. Libtards never learn. Ever.

  • NoMosqueHere

    In general, adopted kids have more emotional problems than others. Why compound their problems by forcing them into complicated inter-racial households that no one really feels comfortable with?

  • Yes, I’m sure it was the traumatic orphanage experience that caused the little mischievous fellow to occasionally act out [sarcasm]. Says it all about Multicultural Marxism that this otherwise intelligent woman has become so brainwashed, in a society where the fashionably brainwashed are rewarded at every turn, that she put herself and her biological family’s lives at risk and yet in the end seems to have learned absolutely nothing.

    • Who Me?

      Since this occurred in 2006, the little Nubian Princeling should be somewhere around 13 now–just about old enough to start his real vocation of victimizing Whites in any and every way he can devise.

      • Well said. And in not too many years he could go into politics and victimize people on a continental scale.

  • William Krapek

    Oh RamZPaul is such a troll. LOVE him!!

  • corvinus

    More victims of Pathological Altruism.

  • MBlanc46

    Absolutely. I curse her for having brought the little bahstahd here.

  • nexus974

    According to the article on Yahoo, J was happy to leave the Conners and is apparently thriving with his new family.

    • FransSusan

      I seriously doubt that–that he’s thriving with his new family. I think they made that up to make everyone feel better about this. That kid is too far gone to thrive.

  • Bleau Gumms

    dats whut u get fo bringin home wild animals

    lesson learned

  • Bleau Gumms

    enjoy reading her obit in the paper within the next five years.

  • FransSusan

    She did the right thing giving up that psycho kid. Why put your own kids at risk for one such as this. Because he was adopted it was possible to give him back; she was lucky that she wasn’t stuck with him. So what.

  • FransSusan

    You are so right! White women seem to be particularly prone to pathological altruism, white guilt, and all that sort of delusional garbage. Although it doesn’t apply to me, I’m a white woman and I still believe that this is true.

  • Pelagian

    There so much going on here in this article from a Paleocon perspective, it is making my head spin, It would take years to cover everything.

  • Pelagian

    This woman should never be allowed to adopt again. She’s clearly not fit to raise anyone else’s child. I bet she’d never abandon her own biological kids! A self-serving article written to make herself feel justified in her actions. We all don’t get perfect kids and them I have the right to abandon them because they don’t live up to our expectations!

    I think you’re mostly right here. But what puzzles me is what motivated her to write this article. She’s risking criticism on all different fronts, including a lot of left-wing “fronts”. Perhaps it is just the white impulse to record all human experience for the benefit of knowledge. But there are a lot of experiences that I have had that I don’t just “write up” … because I don’t have time for the flak and (on the Internet) the trolls.

  • Whites like to fight for the underdog. Decades of intense propaganda and social programming courtesy of our globalist third column have convinced Whites that we no longer need to help our own, or that we somehow deserve to suffer as penance for our ancestors’ past misdeeds.

  • Randall Ward

    Where was the husband; men are needed to raise a child like this one.

  • David Ashton

    Since the environment is similar, there might be a genetic difference. Only identical twins are virtually the same; other siblings usually show individual variations as well as similarities.

  • bobfairlane

    The “worst maternal sin” is spending your time, effort, or money to raise negroes instead of white children. She turned herself into a black woman by taking in those haitian terrors. Now they will be terrorizing someone else but she is still at fault for life for bringing them here and tainting herself.