Does Online Dating Reveal That We’re Racist? Ethnicity Still Matters to Most Site Users When Choosing a Love-Interest

Sarah Griffiths, Daily Mail (London), November 5, 2013

Race still matters when it comes to searching for a partner–at least online, according to a new study.

A sociologist has found that members of dating sites are most likely to contact individuals who share their own racial background, on dating websites.

Professor Kevin Lewis studied the interaction patterns of 126,134 users of dating website OkCupid.com in the U.S. over a  two-and-a-half month period.

The sociologist, from the University of California, San Diego, found the tendency to initiate contact with someone from a shared race, is strongest among Asians and Indians and weakest among whites, the study said.

Professor Lewis only took heterosexual interactions ‘for apples-to-apples comparison with the majority of previous findings’ into account and only for individuals who identified themselves as one of the website’s five most popular racial categories, including: Black, White, Asian (East Asian), Hispanic/Latino and Indian (South Asian).

In the study, published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, he analysed the first message sent and the first reply–only looking at the data about the sender, receiver and time stamp of the message, rather than its content, which was stripped.

While he said white people were the most likely to consider relationships with people from other ethnic backgrounds, he said the biggest ‘reversals’ in preference, are observed among groups that display the greatest tendency towards in-group bias.

Professor Lewis’ study also found that a person who is contacted by someone from a different racial background for the first time is more likely to reply, which he explains using his theory about ‘pre-emptive discrimination’.

‘Based on a lifetime of experiences in a racist and racially segregated society, people anticipate discrimination on the part of a potential recipient and are largely unwilling to reach out in the first place,’ he said.

‘But if a person of another race expresses interest in them first, their assumptions are falsified and they are more willing to take a chance on people of that race in the future.’

However, the assistant professor of sociology in the UC San Diego Division of Social Sciences, warns that the effect is short-lived as people go back to habitual patterns in around a week.

Explaining why, Professor Lewis said: ‘The new-found optimism is quickly overwhelmed by the status quo and the normal state of affairs.

‘Racial bias in assortative mating is a robust and ubiquitous social phenomenon and one that is difficult to surmount even with small steps in the right direction. We still have a long way to go.’

Earlier research into racial bias in assortative mating (or the non-random pairings of people with similar traits) had trouble disentangling how much was due to prejudice and how much to geography or meeting opportunities.

However, Professor Lewis said he was able to take these factors into account with his analysis.

‘Online dating is providing new insights into the timeless social process of finding a romantic partner,’ he added.

An estimated 20 per cent of heterosexual relationships and almost 70 per cent of same-sex relationships now begin online, providing a rich source of data for social scientists.

Previous work on mate selection has often been based on marriage records, which don’t contain any information about a romance’s early days, or on self-report surveys, when people are more likely to present themselves in the best, least-prejudiced light.

While the study might make for depressing reading, Professor Lewis said it shows people are more likely to reciprocate a cross-race message than previous research would lead to scientists to expect.

Once an individual has replied to a suitor from a different race, they are more likely to cross racial lines and initiate interracial contact in the future.

Professor Lewis says internet dating is able to begin to change humans’ ingrained patterns of choosing partners because they are often based on false premises.

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  • Magician

    “Asian women constantly throw themselves at white men” comes in 3…. 2… 1….

    • Dropping the hammer on some exotic Asian strange is not the same as choosing a life partner.

      • Rachel May

        I’ve heard this so many times it makes me sick. Or I’ve heard white guys bragging about the non-white girls they get to bang on “mission” trips. I’ve heard “racialist” men say they like to get some brown sugar on the side, (fortunately, no racialist men I associate with) but its okay cause if the girl gets knocked up he won’t get stuck with a half breed baby like a white girl will. I knew a white guy in MS who happened to work with a majority black female work force and he said it was common knowledge that the girls would try to hook up with white guys at bars cause they thought the babies would turn out creamier looking. Race mixing is wrong whether married or single, whether coal black or red or yellow. Doesn’t matter if its a guy or a girl. Everyone is an example to someone and you are either supporting genocide or warning against it.

        • me

          These ‘White rights’ guys need to stop being hypocrites. Either you are going to walk the walk, or you need to admit that you’re flawed in your logic and beliefs. I can’t imagine having to support a child that doesn’t look like you, has a whole side of the child’s mother’s family that are completely different from you, and having to forever compromise who you are to support that child of a mixed mating. Unhappiness for everyone involved.

          • I have a half-Japanese daughter. Ariadne looks so much like me that Sayaka and I joke about wondering who her mother was.

          • me

            I’m glad that it’s working out for you. For others, not so much.

        • Terra Magnum Imperium

          Rachel, I agree with but that’s easy for a woman to say, In the USA under 40 there are more men then women. So if a lonely single white guy meets a attractive lady of a different race willing to date him, well sometimes the heart trumps the head…

    • NorthernWind

      I have an observation to make about this topic;
      1. Asians girls (Japanese, Chinese, Korean) almost never show interest in me.
      2. “Brown” girls do show interest in me.
      3. Black girls never show interest in me (only one ever has)
      4. By far the girls who show the most interest in me are White.

      Thus I really wonder about this “Asian girls love White guys” meme. My experience is that it is the other way around. Some White guys have a fetish for Asian girls and Asian girls are merely receptive. That being said, ‘brown” girls do actually have a thing for Nordic looking guys. Of course this is only based on MY own experience so… get your salt!

      Anyway, whenever I see a White guy with an Asian/”brown” girl (by FAR the most common interracial coupling, in fact you see almost no other kind where I live) I sneer. It’s disgraceful.

      • RisingReich

        The brown ones are just more receptive to the act of procreation, for a laundry list of reasons not the least of which is cultural.

      • Sick of it

        Not sure about the reasons for the above, but women of a variety of backgrounds have shown an interest in me. It could be a recent immigrant vs. second generation issue.

        • NorthernWind

          Most Asians around here are first generation and speak to each other in Chinese. Perhaps that’s it, they haven’t been “Westernized”.

      • Korean guy

        In the East Asian culture, men are always expected to make the first move. If a woman openly shows interest in a man, it is like she is “loser” or something in our culture, whereas if a woman shows interest in a man in the western culture, she is considered “courageous”, “progressive” and “outgoing”. East Asian guys around me rarely get openly approached or hit on by East Asian women either. East Asian girls might stare at a man they find attractive, but they do not openly express how much they admire a man they find attractive. East Asian men do wish East Asian women make it a bit easier to approach them.
        Roughly a month ago, in the evening, I saw a young white woman walking her dog and I told her that her dog was very cute and beautiful, and I played with her dog for a minute. And then she told me, “Do you want my number?” East Asian women never do that. And then…. I realized what she meant and I grabbed her hand and took her somewhere dark and kissed her for half an hour.

        I am sure you are a truly fine, handsome man. There is no need to think deep into it if a woman does not show a lot of interest in you. I do not think deep if a woman of my age does not show any interest in me either. I have a lot of things to keep me occupied anyway nowadays, and I cannot possibly spend all day long trying to figure out why a particular woman does not like me.

        Well whenever I heard I am a good looking person, since I came to Canada, it is always from a woman who is at least 10 years older than me. Since I came to Canada, I rarely heard, from girls of my age, that I am a good looking guy.

        I heard once that I am a good looking guy, from a Jewish girl, but it was when I was in highschool and was just starting to be able to communicate in English. She also often asked me for help with her math homework. Maybe Jewish people are extremely talented business people and she felt she would have a better chance at getting my help with her math homework if she tells me I am a good looking guy.

        I have seen several youtube clips on Asian man-white woman relationships uploaded by white women and they reminded that if any Asian guy wants to be in a relationship with a white woman, he must make the first move.

        When I was in highschool, I asked a Chinese girl, “Do you think I am sexy?” and then she took a photo of a Chinese male celebrity out of her purse and held it in front of my face and said, “This is sexy”.

        • NorthernWind

          “I am sure you are a truly fine, handsome man. There is no need to think deep into it if a woman does not show a lot of interest in you. I do not think deep if a woman of my age does not show any interest in me either. I have a lot of things to keep me occupied anyway nowadays, and I cannot possibly spend all day long trying to figure out why a particular woman does not like me.”

          I don’t think about it at all. I was merely reporting on my observations…

        • Fighting_Northern_Spirit

          When I was in highschool, I asked a Chinese girl, “Do you think I am sexy?” and then she took a photo of a Chinese male celebrity out of her purse and held it in front of my face and said, “This is sexy”
          .
          LOL Chinese are blunt. I had a Chinese coworker tell another Hispanic coworker that her red-dyed hair made her “look like a prostitute.” In this world of political correctness, I rather like that about them.

          • Korean guy

            I just laughed it off. It was a cute, funny and creative response from her.

      • pcmustgo

        Do you live in NYC or San Francisco or LA? Do you live in a place with enough Asians to really understand the phenomenen? I live in NYC… I swear by God sometimes you only see white males with asian females type couples walking down the street.

        • Magician

          WM – AF is also the most common type of interracial couples in my area, but the AF in the arms of the WM are mostly not very attractive.

          • ShermanTMcCoy

            Makes you think, doesn’t it. I mean consider BM/WF. She is almost alway fat and disgusting. I don’t think I’d want to be that guy.

        • ms_anthro

          The White men who miscegenate with Asian females are almost always nebbish, nerdy, superbeta types. You rarely see Dolph Lundgren lookalikes with Asian wives.

          • Patrick

            That’s right. Especially since for a long time Lundgren was with a black woman.

            Just because he’s skinny, doesn’t mean he wants non-Whites. Just because he’s handsome, doesn’t mean he has good taste.

        • Terra Magnum Imperium

          Agreed, I dated a Filipina and asked “do you Honestly think that I am more attractive then an Asian Male?” She said “Yes most Asian men look like boys compared to European Men.”

          • Magician

            Some Filipina women can be quite attractive (albeit shorter, darker and chubbier than typical East Asian women. But then again many East Asian women are too skinny and they do look like little boys) but it is really hard to view the boys and girls from the Philippines as “Asians” because they are a combination of numerous ethnicities and their official language is English. There are over 170 languages spoken in the Philippines and we can imagine how many different ethnic groups are found in the islands!

    • ShermanTMcCoy

      Never seen it myself.

  • OhWow

    The media seems to report white women dating non-white men a LOT more than it actually happens. If you use the eye check even in liberal areas like the NYC area, white women by in large still stick with white men…probably 90%. But the media wants to make it seem like they are much more open to the idea to promote the genocide of us. Notice in commercials, game shows, sports shows, etc. there is always the pretty white woman and the bantu man. It’s very strategically placed. You will never see a white man with a few black women or asian women on the show or commercial. This is why the Cheerio’s commercial got so much attention. People have had enough.

    There is absolutely no reason for a white woman to marry or date a man of any other race. White men still outnumber all other races of men greatly. It says more about your hatred of white people or your liberal agenda if you seek out a minority as a white woman.

    • sbuffalonative

      The propaganda is blatant, incessant, and clearly planned.

      • bigone4u

        And I think we know who the planners are without naming them.

        • Franklin_Ryckaert

          Are they Eskimos?

        • ghettovalley

          Of course we do. And this would never be allowed in their home country, which happens to be one of the most ethnocentric places in the world. But of course there are always one set of standards for us and another set of standards for them.

      • mgs166

        It’s truly amazing just how effective it really is.

    • Guest

      It is a slap in the face for young black women, telling them, “Black men won’t choose you.” It convinces black men that white women are theirs to take because they always see them closely paired up with white women on TV.

    • Magician

      I also am getting sick of how it is always a black man – white woman whenever there is an interracial pair appearing on TV. It is also a slap in the face for young black women, telling them, “Black men won’t ever choose you” and convinces black men that it is so natural and normal for black women to be with white women and white women are theirs to take.

      LeBron James is married to his highschool sweetheart, Savannah, who is African American, but she never, ever gets any attention in the media, but when a black athlete is in a relationship with a white woman or a hispanic woman who appears to be white, she will be shown a million times on TV.

      • Pretty nauseous stuff right there.

      • OhWow

        I was at a bar with some college friends in NYC and one of my friends is a very attractive girl. I got up to go to the bathroom and when I came back, 2 black guys were talking to her and we didn’t come with any black guys. I went up and said “Is there a problem?” and pulled her away. I asked her what they were saying and she said they asked if she liked black guys and how pretty she is. Black men are extremely aggressive and won’t ever take no for an answer even when the girl thinks they are hideous. She later thanked me for saving her. I actually took a pretty big risk because there were probably 40 blacks at the bar and 20 whites. If I got in a fight with them you just know the other blacks would come to their defense. Hell, the liberal whites would probably help beat on me too.

        More white men need to do this stuff. Challenge the black guys. They think we are weak, submissive, and laugh at us. The look on their faces when I came right up without hesitation asking if there was a problem was priceless. It was almost like “Damn…this white dude ain’t playin!”. Many white women hate being approached by black men but are too liberal and want to appear too anti-racist to say no or walk away. They know the second they shut them down they will be labeled as racist. So we as white men need to step in and remove them from this trap.

        • ncpride

          Your post reminds me of a story of my own. Back when I was 18 or so, I was at a convenience store across the street from the plant my then boyfriend worked, waiting for him to meet me there on his lunch break. While I was waiting, a black guy I knew worked in the same department as my boyfriend came up to my car looking for him to talk to him about something, and asked if I had seen him. He hadn’t been standing there no more than a few minutes before a White guy I had never seen before in my life approached and asked me if everything was ok. I assured him everything was fine, and that I was waiting on my boyfriend. I’ve never seen a black guy get so nervous, and he walked away immediately.

          Despite my early education in ‘diversity’ training, it wasn’t until years later that I completely understood that White strangers aggressive and bold behavior, and really appreciate it. He was worried for me. That was back in the mid 80’s. White men need to take that kind of attitude again, so good for you.

        • ms_anthro

          If only more White men were like you. I have no sympathy for White women who rut with non-Whites, but we are hardwired to find testosterone and aggression attractive. White men have abdicated their responsibilities to us in many ways (and the anti-Whites have used feminism and other corrosive social movements to drive a wedge between us).

          We must unite and refuse to be divided, or we will die out. Protect your women, White men. If you don’t, no one will. We can only do so much to protect ourselves.

    • Sue

      I was going to write the same first sentence. Anything to split whites up and give up.

    • NorthernWind

      You’re correct. The media tends to massively over-represent such “couples” and to make things worse, racially conscious people more strongly react to such “couples” when they see them so they begin to believe that they are more prevalent than they actually are.

      The media is desperately trying to normalize such “couples” so it’s actually surprising how few people engage in them. As the tide turns I expect the number to start turning around quite rapidly and it will drive them true believer liberals to madness.

    • Sick of it

      One has to consider the number of men the average American woman dates in her lifetime these days. They do tend to date or hook up with non-white men frequently, with such MARRIAGES being much less common. Our women generally do not seem to have inhibitions these days (and yes that includes the all too frequent experimentation with lesbianism which is surely much more widespread than any such activities on the part of our men – yuck!).

      And yes, many white women do seem to have something against white men today.

      • Yale2001

        Just for the record. There is not as much real life “lesbian experimentation” as you would think. Yes, I realize the media loves to glorify this for some sick reason, but I have only met a VERY FEW girls/women that really feel this way. Society is collapsing but I think our media prays on weak minded souls and makes them think it’s o.k. or cool when it is still actually a bit disgusting to even those that are trying to act it out. Which really just shows how weak minded so many are becoming.

        • Sick of it

          Homosexuality isn’t something someone is born with, people have to be conditioned to become homosexuals. Pushing such experimentation is one way we are being conditioned. Just think about Pavlov’s experiments and consider other kinds of rewards that humans may obtain from such activity. Positive reinforcement of an otherwise unnatural behavior can lead one toward more performance of said unnatural behavior.

      • Magician

        The mainstream media and Hollywood taught them to hate their own dads and brothers

    • ghettovalley

      In my area it happens quite a bit, but much much less than we are led to believe in the media. However, 99% of the time when I see a mixed couple, it is a very unattractive, overweight, and just all around trashy white woman. I think they feel like no white man would want them, and they are probably right, would you want to date a 300 lb blonde with a neck tattoo and a black accent? Me either. It is also worth noting that nearly every single time I see a white woman with a mixed race child she is a single mother on welfare. You would think they would learn not to mess around with blacks, but I guess the liberal media brainwashing machine is strong.

    • CourtneyfromAlabama

      “It says more about your hatred of white people or your liberal agenda if you seek out a minority as a white woman.”

      Agreed. I feel the same about white men who do the same.

  • sbuffalonative

    Does Online Dating Reveal that We’re Racists?

    The question is meant to terrify anyone who has the normal and natural attraction to their own race.

    ‘Do YOU only consider dating your own race?’ YOU are a racist!

    • Sue

      “So what?” is the answer.

      • Jesse James

        I like to ask black guys why they like to insult their mothers and sisters by dating white women. Most just get huffy and pissed off but sometimes you can tell you hit home.

    • bigone4u

      I’m a bigot twice over. I won’t date black and I won’t date men (or trannies for that matter.) I’m racist and homophobe according to lefties. Getting us to pair off with our own sex (and trannies) is next on the lefty agenda.

      • Magician

        Feminists!

  • OhWow

    Also, I know a white woman (ugly, butch, and looks like a lesbian) who exclusively dated black men. She even got to the point where she would say “Ew, white men…”. I actually went up to her one day and said “What’s wrong with you? You clearly have a problem and you’re being racist against whites even though you are white wtf?”. Being in the psych field, I asked her if her father or some family member was “racist” growing up. She said yes and opened up to me. Clearly some white women do this just because they have daddy issues. They want to be Miley Cyrus and experiment with everything you tell them not to. She was dating exclusively black men, now she recently came out as a lesbian and is dating a black woman who looks like a lesbian. She is one of the biggest pieces of trash I know of, and I laugh every time I see her thinking she threw her entire life away.

    • IstvanIN

      I used to work with a white woman, big girl, kind of tough looking, who married a black guy and has three kids with him Her mother was real trashy, whore, druggie, died at 56. Another woman I worked with said she did it, (went black) to get back at her trashy mother. Could be.

      • OhWow

        More times than not, a white woman with a black man means there are issues with her self-esteem or daddy issues. These are the daughters of alcoholics, lesbians, white trash, druggies, etc. It’s more a sign of pathology when you see a white woman with a black man. It’s like the black sheep that the white community excommunicated. You know there is a lot of baggage somewhere.

        Some people, again like Miley Cyrus just love the shock value. It’s really a cry for help under it all. Just look at the interracial rape stats broken down by race. White women clearly put themselves in immediate possible danger if they choose the brown sugar route. Some of them never learn and stay the course, but hey maybe it’s better they are off with some hoodlum. Black men are like bacteria…they break down all the nasty stuff we don’t want…like fat white women with tattoos and STD’s.

      • M.

        ..

    • KingKenton

      Clearly some white women do this just because they have daddy issues.
      Absolutely correct. I’ve encountered this among individuals who were abused as children / teenagers by people (often parents), who claimed to be Christian but are in fact everything but. In the victim’s world, religion and Christianity become an evil which must be rejected / destroyed. Had your acquaintance had a “racist” father which was very loving and good to her, she would probably have grown up to be a White woman with a healthy state of mind and attitudes towards race.

  • D.B. Cooper

    What they don’t tell us is WHO the number one preferred race of the partner is if he/she is not the same ethnic group. Blacks, Hispanics, Asians, Arabs, and everyone else will place whites at #1 if they absolutely must date interracial.

  • MekongDelta69

    If the left didn’t have race/DIE-versity, over which they’ve been absolutely obsessed since the 60s, none of them would have jobs.

    “A study by a sociologist” = A complete waste of time, energy, space, and oxygen.

    • antiallanbloom

      you don’t like sociology?

      • Brian

        The search for knowledge is good, and sociology is fascinating to me, but anything can be hijacked for evil. This prof is a classic case of Pope’s warning: ‘a little knowledge is a dangerous thing.’

        • antiallanbloom

          so you think Sociology has been hijacked for evil?

          • Brian

            In American universities now, yes, mostly. The guy I had for a sociology elective, though, was somewhat in touch with reality, as his research didn’t touch upon PC topics.

          • antiallanbloom

            IMO sociologists are all far-leftist concerned w/ anti-capitalism and GLBT topics

  • bigone4u

    “We still have a long way to go.”
    ___________________________________________
    The professor gives away his bias with this sentence. Is anyone surprised he fails to understand the natural imperative to stick with members of his own race? I’m not. He burnishes his “progressive” credentials on campus, once again redefining “racist” in ever more broad terms.

    • Hopefully his own daughter will involve herself in a bukkake contest (featuring black studs) and his dream will be realized.

    • ms_anthro

      What’s really funny is he probably claims with a straight face that he wants to increase diversity. This will be accomplished, in his mind, by using social engineering and shaming tactics to force Whites to breed with non-Whites, turning everyone the same non-diverse shade of mocha. Great plan, Poindexter!

      “Diversity” in Leftist babble means “no more Whites.” This is how a school can be 85% black and the multicultist anti-Whites will crow about how “diverse” it is.

  • IstvanIN

    I wish this were true. Everyday I see mixed race couples. I ran into the market this afternoon and saw a nice looking white girl with her bantu. Gross. On an unusual note I saw a tall, very young blond stockboy, a real All-American. Boy did he look out of place.

    • Magician

      I saw such a couple a few days ago. It was a brunette white woman in the arms of a black man. She appeared in her 40s. Good news is it is possible she already gave births to multiple white children. My friend’s roommate is a black guy who does not cause trouble and he is in a relationship with a black woman.

      • Jesse James

        I really don’t like white women who take white children from a previous marriage into cohabitation situations with black men. It is child abuse in my opinion.

        • Sick of it

          Too many stories of actual child abuse come to light in such situations. Remember that white woman who tried to get her daughter pregnant with her black boyfriend’s baby (because she couldn’t have more kids)? Her daughter was like 13 or 14.

          • Jesse James

            Sickening yes . Though to me even when the man is a decent man it is wrong to force a child into a completely different racial environment. I feel the same way about black children adopted by whites – of course if more blacks adopted children there wouldn’t be any black kids for the whites to adopt. The people who run this programs know that it is best to have a child raised by his own race, that is why they give first priority to same race parents. There is a movement among some blacks to prevent whites from being able to adopt black children, so there are blacks who also recognize the wrongness of placing a child into a home with a different race. It creates confusion in the child’s mind and makes them vulnerable to all types of abuse.

          • Franklin_Ryckaert

            Ah the races behaving naturally! How contrary to the idea of the cultural Marxists that everything is a “social construct”!

      • WR_the_realist

        This is not atypical. It is likely such a woman bought into the feminist line, spent her 20s and 30s working on her career and playing the field. And now she finds that white men looking for a woman with which to have children prefer a woman at an age where that won’t require advanced biotechnology.

        • Franklin_Ryckaert

          She didn’t understand the idea of the “biological clock”.

    • RisingReich

      Us ‘All-American’ types are becoming more and more single and out of place by the day. I often cycle through anger and depression as a result of it.

      One of these days these ‘All-American’ types are just going to be gone. We are truly a people without a Nation, and fast becoming a people without women…unless you want to count the lying, cheating, race-traitorous type of which we have many.

      Plus, society is now such that any ‘All-American’ type who dates HAS to ask the question, “Have you ever with a black?” – and you either see her cringe and say “No” (the cringe means yes) or you are immediately disqualified for caring enough about your own health to ask, and get the general ‘bigot, racist, nazi’ stuff thrown at you.

      Thanks libtards EVERYWHERE for helping build such a pleasant reality to navigate. I’m sure some of them are enjoying this sad calamity I have described mightily.

      To that I say, “live it up”, because many of us have figured out who’s caused this misery that is modern life and no mercy will be given when time has run its course. It’s THE day I live for…because reasons most men live for have been taken from us.

      Tomorrow always comes and passes…until it doesn’t.

      • ms_anthro

        I would cringe because the very idea of it is so nauseating, and I know I’m not alone. Don’t let the anti-Whites divide us further, RR. We need you as much as you need us. Hang in there and know that there are more good White women out there than our enemies want you to believe.

        • Brian

          I obliquely asked my girlfriend when me met if she’d had any coalburning history, and she was insulted that I thought she could be that stupid. Good girl. 😉 After the umpteenth time of having some toothless, sweat-stained wife-beater-wearing nog shuffling around asking if he could ‘holla’ or ‘git witchoo’, she came home and asked me to take her to the shooting range. She now has a CCW. Good girl. 😉

        • RisingReich

          I know you replied six days ago, but I really appreciate your comment.

          Really struggling lately to keep positive about it.
          Thank you.

    • Sick of it

      Those of us who don’t live in vast majority white areas see this sort of thing frequently. But even folks from whitebread locations like West Virginia seem to find a way to date interracially.

  • Spartacus

    “While he said white people were the most likely to consider relationships with people from other ethnic backgrounds…”

    ———————————————————————————————————————

    First of all – it’s other RACIAL backgrounds, not ethnic.

    Secondly – Those are mentally ill people, and if their new dark-skin pets don’t kill them off, someone like me will .

    • GM (Australia)
    • Sensitivity Training

      Whites who mix with blacks are very dangerous to the future of the White community. No turning back at this point- too many have gone over to the Darkness for us to avoid the certain outcome.

      If they hate themselves enough to engage in extreme masochism and bestiality, then they hate you enough to destroy everything your love.

      • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

        They are our biggest danger these days. Blacks no longer have a massive birthrate, but the current levels of miscegenation between Whites and Negroes is going to result in a huge increase, I fear in the Mulatto population. Most Mulattoes have a Negro temperament, not a White temperament, and will only hasten the demise of our European American culture.

    • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

      Racial indeed. An ethnic group is a cultural group, such as Polish vs. German. I hate when people who are racially pure Whites with a number of Nationalities in their backgrounds ignorantly and inaccurately call themselves “mutts”. A mutt implies being a product of miscegenation.

  • Pelagian

    “Does Online Dating Reveal That We’re Racist? ”

    Yes! And by that standard, blacks are *more* racist than whites. (“white people were the most likely to consider relationships with people from other ethnic backgrounds”). I LOVE this article.

    • Andy

      Did you like how he explained away the fact that blacks are less likely to consider interracial dating than whites are by saying it’s because they are so used to being rejected by racist whites?

      • Pelagian

        Yeah like blacks are so good at learning from trial and error… and equally good at taking “No” for an answer.
        Blacks *are* more “racist” (modern definition). That is the only explanation. Racial pride minus self-loathing equals un willingness to date across racial lines.

        So for blacks, guesstimate, it’s 80% pride minus 20% self-loathing – 60% wont date whites.

        And for whites: it’s 90% pride minus 50% self-loathing = 40% wont date blacks.

        All races should have a default of about 90% love of one’s own race. There’s always 10% weirdos in any group.

        (Where do I go to pick up my Nobel Prize? (-: )

        • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

          Blacks scream racism when self-evaluation is in order. In a sensible society, they would be told to be quiet, and engage in some healthy self analysis, and reminded that we are not judging them by the color of their skin, but judging them by the way they act, just as MLK so fervently hoped we would do.

      • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

        He completely ignored the reality of why we reject them. It is their unpleasant personalities with a lust for constant contention, their lack of work ethic, lack of honesty, desire for constant handouts, lack of a sense of fair play, and so on and so on. Negroes are unpleasant to be around. MLK wanted us to judge them based on the content of their character. Ironically, when we do this, we find the Negro race abhorrent.

  • DaveMed

    See, a more accurate headline would read: “Does Online Dating Reveal That Asians And Indians Are Racist?

    But I guess that wouldn’t make whites feel as guilty.

  • I sure hope it does, who cares? Is what I have to say, Im only attracted to my White women. 🙂

  • I’ve been around hip decadent 20 somethings who’ve inferred that life to them is like some sort of ethnic sexual smörgåsbord where you’re meant to sexually ‘try’ every racial group on earth until you find that right click for you.
    A sort of sexual colonization or a selfish globalist take on procreation.
    It’s an attitude I come across a lot in the media, especially aimed at young white woman(of course), reminds me of how someone once described the “Sex in the city” TV show, four straight woman acting like gay men in NY.

    I had a computer programmer friend who did a dramatic acts degree (an acting degree basically…who honestly wasn’t gay, but a very naive son of preacher, but I digress), who told me that the highest aspiration of an actor was to lose themselves or step outside of themselves.
    The example he gave me was, if need be, to be able to kiss another man fearlessly and convincingly in a scene at the drop of a hat and to be sincerely ‘in the moment’.
    He told me that the way they achieved this was to do various meditation and self hypnosis exercises where they visualized their face as a mask, and he’d take this mask off and put on another mask of a man/woman who’s old/young, black/white or what ever and so on.

    I hear the same pseudo spiritual attitude used a lot by the left, towards ‘outer’ designations, such as “I was born in the wrong body” sentiment, or again the male/female, black/white and so on, are just outer shells or “social constructs” that shouldn’t be taken seriously or used to judge as everything is just skin deep (like a mask) and the deep biological differences shouldn’t be taken seriously (I wonder how much the media influences this view).

    This ability to become anyone to me is dishonest and it is of no wonder that actors all gravitate towards various religions and causes to fill their own emptiness.
    Actors in medieval Europe had the same status as prostitutes(who’ve often been accused of selling their souls along with their bodies) and even now, how often do we hear woman’s magazines gossip about “Brad worked with Jen and fell in love with her, then later worked with Angelina and fell in love with her”, these people pretend to love whomever for a short period of time, then do it so convincingly that they really do have an affair with whoever they’re working with, well until that project ends.
    To me they still sound like prostitutes.

    Before Thomas Edison invented the camera (that was quickly counterfeited in Minsk to mass produce low cost but profitable girlie images to be used in NY penny arcades), these entertainers were the lower than the low, but now according to the media they are our new aristocracy.
    Now they’re the fairytale ‘millionaires in bikinis’, who we all get to watch go on vacation six times a year, giving us our escapist fantasizes and more often our moral and political examples to live by.

    Just look at the long list of White female actors who now have black babies to see how the message is being pushed by these modern day incarnations of prostitutes, who’re really just players in the great stage of life, well until they get old and ugly and then we mock them.

    As toxic as the current MSM’s message is, I’m genuinely surprised that we’re not seeing more interracial dating than is being reported here.

    • pcmustgo

      Wow, great post.

    • me

      Wait until their little Bantu babies are enraged, as they get older, that some dumb ‘celebrity’ adopted them for publicity. They could have been with their own race, instead of being raised by some nanny from a Third World craphole. Spending their childhoods, living in a gilded cage, then sent off to some boarding school when they weren’t ‘cute’ any longer. It’s just like Joan Crawford and Barbara Stanwyck all over again, except the ‘progressive’ Hollywood sleaze uses ‘minority’ babies for that extra status among their sick peers.

  • WR_the_realist

    That most people want to date and marry within their own race is a perfectly natural situation and one that has persisted for centuries. It is typical of our left wing overlords that this is seen as a problem that must be “solved”.

    • Paul

      I disagree, to a non-white dating a white is like a big upgrade. In most cases they just don’t think they would have a shot. As I always say, a white with a non-white is like driving a beaten up old VW when you could be driving a ferrari.

      • a multiracial individual

        This is rubbish. All human characteristics (including intelligence and attractiveness) present themselves in all races. Admittedly, with differing frequency. No White guy is gonna date Rosie O’Donnel over Jamie Chung.

        • Patrick

          Celibacy is not ideal. But there are worse things.

        • Paul

          Silly argument. You chose an extreme example. A fat white man is better dating a fat woman than a fat black. Of course no one but a desperate black would date Rose O’donnell and even he would think it was an upgrade.

        • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

          Differing frequency is key, and is the reason why miscegenation is not meant to be, and racial integration has only produced tension between people. Anyone who takes a good, honest look at other people, and has spent some time around more than a few members of another race, knows very well that the different races have different basic temperaments. Not all members fit the overall profile, because that is the nature of genetics. This does not mean, though, that basic themes do not prevail. Political correctness prevents Whites from engaging in a healthy dialogue about this, though, without us first making sure that we are in surroundings where we will not be subjected to persecution merely for expressing our views.
          Racial Segregation was not just something old folks believed in before recent years. Racial Segregation is something that had always existed, as God created a world which was racially segregated. Just look at geography, and where the races of humans lived throughout most of history. Each race inhabited a geographically separate area of the planet, and did not encounter another race of humans until several hundred years ago. The Bible is written about a racially pure Caucasian world with different tribes/languages of course, but all being members of the Caucasian race. Until Europeans and Middle Easterners travelled into Africa below the Sahara, it is doubtful that they even knew of the existence of the Negroid race.

      • Mike Lau

        Well tell that to your brothers who chase Asian women.

  • GeneticsareDestiny

    Once again, whites are proven to be the least racist group of people on Earth. How unfortunate for us. Maybe if we were more racist, we wouldn’t be allowing our nations to be destroyed.

  • Lord_Steven_Regal

    Interesting that not dating outside your race is considered racist, yet the researchers admit that whites are the most apt to date outside their race, yet whites are still labeled the most racist by the media and intelligentsia as the most racist race. This goes to show two things: (1) that whites are being affected by the constant message that they must not prefer other whites over non-whites; and (2) no matter what whites do, non-whites and liberal whites will always consider whites the most racist.

    • Franklin_Ryckaert

      Whites are “racist” simply because they exist. They only can become “non-racist” by ceasing to exist, and that is the real agenda of these “anti-racists” all along.

  • SaggyGenes

    Even when I was a doe-eyed liberal, the thought of being intimate with a black was repulsive to me.

  • Bon, From the Land of Babble

    Racial bias in assortative mating is a robust and ubiquitous social phenomenon and one that is difficult to surmount even with small steps in the right direction. We still have a long way to go.

    This anti-White pseudo-scientist wants us to believe that choosing a partner of one’s own race is unnatural, hateful and racist. He believes social engineering of society is MORE important than human nature– the results of social engineering over human nature are inevitably disastrous.

    The media are especially pernicious in pressing intermarriage. TV shows White women the utter fabrication that black men are intelligent, responsible, wise and strong — perfect husband and father material. White men are portrayed as bumbling, foolish, child-like and unintelligent.

    This is a major component of the anti-White agenda — to make sure that we Whites don’t preserve ourselves. Our churches, schools, government, pseudo scientists and media all preach that to oppose intermarriage is racist and no contrary message is allowed to be heard.

    To anti-Whites, pushing interracial marriage is a valuable tool in their goal to destroy the White race.

    Bon

    • KingKenton

      The media are especially pernicious in pressing intermarriage. TV shows White women the utter fabrication that black men are inintelligent, responsible, wise and strong — perfect husband and father material. White men are portrayed as bumbling, foolish, child-like and unintelligent.

      Which is why we MUST find someway to get Whites unplugged from the media-entertainment matrix. How we can do that, I don’t know. Television and movies have been the primary conduit through which Whites have been defeated. I realize I’m probably arguing for the impossible, which makes me all the more depressed.

      • M.

        We can still boycott the products, shows, and movies which promote multiracialism. And if possible, make it known that this race-mixing filth is exactly the reason why we don’t watch watch/buy such or such.

      • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

        Encouraging appropriate abhorrence of unnecessary contention works well, along with speaking honestly about abhorrent behavior in general. When a Negro is being endured in a work environment by a group of Whites, all we need to do is be honest about the abhorrent behaviors of the Negro while in the company of other Whites. Race doesn’t even need to be mentioned when the truth about their actions is being proclaimed with boldness. One can never get into any hot water for this, provided race isn’t mentioned and the focus is behaviors. Sooner or later, most Whites will notice a common thread of race, especially if several Blacks must be endured on a daily basis. All but the most ardently pig-headed Libtards will notice, and a cautious, but realistic dialogue is opened up on race. Only the hard core Libtards will stubbornly resist the evidence that basic themes that hold true for a sizable group of Blacks reflect on the race as a whole. Everyone else is going to notice the undeniable connection between race and behavior.

    • Romulus

      Thanks Bon! Words can’t describe the loathing disgust I have for coal burners.
      The nature of my feelings being,of course primeval.
      The famous Indian chief Pontiac once said ” If you want to destroy a tribe, you control the females” from the Ten biggest lies about America by Michael medved(Jewish). This practice is not unlike the Roman practice of prima notte!
      The marxists know exactly what they’re doing. Media is complicit with this racial suicide. The book was very informative excepting chapter four where he espouses that miscegenation is the path to assimilation. IT IS NOT.

      THIS is how the tribe has taken control of the west. I’ve noticed our favorite “commentator” was trolling on alternative right the other day. Is he not an insufferable fool. (sigh)

      • Bon, From the Land of Babble

        Alexander Solzhenitsyn stated that “To destroy a people, you must first sever their roots.”

        Which is exactly what the Soviets set out to do: to create the “New Soviet Man” — build highrise “gulag”-type housing to disconnect people from the land, flood satellite countries with Soviets to eradicate nationalism and ethnicity (making it easier for the Soviet bosses to control the people), disappear or starve out (Holomodor) any/all opponents of central planning.

        Citizens of of totalitarian systems, especially Marxist systems, are the most likely to be murdered by their own government.

        The result: 61,911,000 murdered in the Soviet Gulag State.

        www // hawaii // edu/powerkills/NOTE4 // HTM

        Solzhenitsyn was an eyewitness as to what happens when the cultural marxists control the media, government and academia. Interesting — Solzhenitsyn won the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1970 and was lauded for his work exposing the Soviet Gulag system — yet his 200 Years Together remained ignored and untranslated.

        Reading the (new) translations will tell you why the American publishing houses and media have ignored this IMPORTANT work.

        I take it as a warning to America.

        www // theoccidentalobserver // net/2011/05/during-1917-chapter-14-of-solzhenitsyns-200-years-together/

        www // theoccidentalobserver // net/2010/06/kevin-macdonald-translation-of-solzhenitsyns-in-the-camps-of-gulag-chapter-20-of-200-years-together/

        Bon

        • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

          I believe Solzhenitsyn’s comments to be completely on the money. Black culture has been the key boogeyman slowly severing the roots of European Americans. If not for the Negroes influencing Whites, the whole current pop culture glorification of untalented mediocre musicians, recreational sex, use of mind altering drugs, and glorification of violence would not have gotten off of the ground. Sex, drugs, and rock n’ roll all got started with Whites adopting Black culture and glorifying Black behaviors instead of abhorring them.

          • Pelagian

            I was and still am a rock fan, but I can’t disagree with you. That’s the “alchemy” that was going on at the time.
            But in defense of white rock, I will say that whites transformed rock into something very far removed from its initial “race music” base. Also, interestingly, when I attend a rock concert, it’s the most segregated hour of my week. Nary a black in attendance.

          • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

            Actually, I’m a pretty strong classic metal fan. White rockers indeed took what was originally inferior Negro music, and made it something great. Bands like Deep Purple and Emerson, Lake and Palmer made rock something very English, laying a foundation for the awesome eighties metal. I can’t imagine life without Yngwie Malmsteen, Iron Maiden, and Judas Priest. When we get to Malmsteen, stellar musicianship of a classical caliber, White European style musicianship, is the rule. His music, of course, is far closer to Bach and Mozart than to the boring Black blues guitar. He was inspired by Deep Purple in tandem with classical, and also by Klezmer fiddle players. Yngwie rules!! Blacks never seem to be into Metal. I think it is too intricate for them. They no more get Yngwie’s music than they do an Organ Concerto, or Klezmer Clarinet.

      • Spartacus

        “…the Roman practice of prima notte!”

        ————————————————————————————————–

        Yeah… The Romans didn’t actually do that. In fact, that’s pretty much a myth Greek scholars wrote happened in Ancient Lybia. The only place where it was actually practiced on some scale was Kurdistan.

        • Romulus

          The iceni gaelic tribe on Britain and the Scots during the reign of Edward the longshanks would disagree with you. Unless of course, historians are either 1) lying 2) I ve misinterpreted Suetonius, Tacitus and Ceaser in his book the Gallic wars. If it’s not precisely true, please point me in the direction of source material. I do like to be properly and roundly informed.

          Thanks.

          • Spartacus
          • Romulus

            I prefer books, but in the short term, that will do.

          • Romulus

            I just finished perusing the link. Again, thank you, however, I remain unconvinced.
            Many customs and traditions become either revised, omitted, or myth over time. That doesn’t inherently disprove that they didn’t occur. British historian Terry Jones did a wonderful documentary on the Roman/gaelic conflicts and it’s culmination with the public beheading of Verson Getorix.

            Sexual predation/deviancy was quite rampant in the ancient world.
            Roman vice was legend in it’s heyday. That is not to suggest that it was pervasive in all tiers of the empire. Sexual dominance was usually a spoil of conquerors and their armies.
            I will certainly enjoy investigating more on the topic.

          • Spartacus

            I have no doubt it happened regularly, but I don’t think it was ever institutionalized in the manner you’d see it in Braveheart .

          • Romulus

            You know, that’s a good point.
            It would be interesting to know if Mr. Ashton and British Activism could add some information. It’s little pieces of history like this one that I love to research.

          • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

            European culture, thankfully, has evolved immensely since those days. The Groids have not. If anything, their thinking is not even on this level yet. From a psychological slant, the Ego and Super-Ego are hyper developed in our European cultures. The Id is quite unfettered in the Groid culture, and there has been little to no Ego and Super-Ego formation when we have not been there to lead the way for them. In the African jungle, it is the Id unfettered.

          • Romulus

            I hope I don’t come off as skewering my ancestors. That is not my intent. The former comment on Rome was for illustration purposes. Since it was the longest lasting system, it quite apparently had many positives.

  • Funruffian

    I once created a mock profile from one of my ex-girlfriends. I posted about 8 really hot revealing pictures of her. 60% of the guys interested in her were all bantus looking for a hot White chick. They really lay on the charm thick, whereas the White guys are more cool and less demonstrative about complementing the woman’s anatomy. They are desperate for White women. I used to toil and tease, but never let on. Sometimes I would ridicule their looks, their poor grammar and stupid comments. It was rather fun for the freak value of it all.

    • Franklin_Ryckaert

      You could have teased them more. You could have demanded they first pass an IQ test on-line before considering dating them. Minimum requirement : IQ 140.

      • SaggyGenes

        90 would have sufficed.

      • Funruffian

        Believe me, I took every golden opportunity to mess with them. They would ask for my number. I would give them the phone number of another bantu who offered me his number. And I would repeat this cycle, driving them crazy. It took them a while before they figured it out. They are a bit slow to comprehend pranks and trolling.
        When making fun of their looks I would never make racist implications. I would say things like, “You sure have a weird shaped head. What happened to it? Was it squeezed through a tube? I’ll call you Bullethead.”
        “What’s up with those bulging bug-eyes?” “You stink?”
        Sometimes I would respond with some silly poetic retort – ‘You be looking up my fine thighs with you your bug-eyes. You want me bad, but don’t be sad.” With some of the brothas, they would get more desperate the more I cut them down. It was a hoot.

        • Pelagian

          Interesting: “They are a bit slow to comprehend pranks and trolling.” “With some of the brothas, they would get more desperate the more I cut them down. ”

          It’s a little mean what you are doing, but I have to admit you’re getting some good data. I guess people deserve whatever they get when they skunk around online. I could tell my teenage boys who like chatting up teenage girls on the Internet, “How do you know that’s really a girl instead of a 55-year-old man?”.

          • Funruffian

            I guess it’s mean in one minor sense. But what is the likelihood they are looking for a respectable, non-violent relationship?

          • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

            Meanness is endemic to the Black culture, and pure sadism is more the norm than most would believe, until they take a good, honest, unfettered by Liberal brainwashing look at Black culture. More power to you, Funruffian, for giving the Groids a teaspoonful of their own medicine. They always balk when given this taste of their own schtick, but hey, why not give them what they deserve!!!

    • Pelagian

      “They are desperate for White women.” And isn’t that sad? as someone said on another comment thread, “That is an insult to their mother and sisters”.* But once a few smart, patriotic (and not self-serving), black leaders come forward and realize what a deplorable situation that is, they can begin to work with other race realists on some solutions (which will probably look very much like the solutions of the past which have been condemned).

      * *(of course the ultimate insult to your mother is going gay).

    • Mike Lau

      You need to get a life.

  • Franklin_Ryckaert

    The author of this article clearly is part of the White-Genocide-through-Miscegenation-project. Dating within one’s race is “bias” which is difficult to overcome, but with some small steps we might go “in the right direction”. Following are quotes from this article that speak for themselves (bold by me) :

    “The new-found optimism is quickly overwhelmed by the status quo and the normal state of affairs.”

    “Racial bias in assortative mating is a robust and ubiquitous social phenomenon and one that is difficult to overcome even with small steps in the right direction. We still have a long way to go.”

    “Earlier research into racial bias in assortative mating……had trouble disentangling how much was due to prejudice and how much to geography or meeting opportunities.”

    “…..or on self-report surveys, when people are more likely to present themselves in the best, least prejudiced light.”

    “While the study might make for depressing reading….”

    “Professor Lewis says internet dating is able to begin to change humans’ ingrained patterns of choosing partners because they are often based on false premises.”

    Fortunately the findings of our “anti-racist” professor’s research give a clear answer to the question in the article’s title : Does Online Dating Reveal That We’re Racist? It is yes, we’re racist and thank God we are!

    • Pelagian

      Good job dissecting it.

      • Franklin_Ryckaert

        Yes, the jargon is very revealing. For example :

        “While he said white people were the most likely to consider relationships with people from other ethnic backgrounds, he said the ‘reversals’ in preference, are observed among groups that display the greatest tendency towards in-group bias.”

        Notice the term ‘reversals’ for normal behavior, which betrays the professor’s inverted value system. But such an unnatural, inverted value system is the very essence of cultural Marxism, as I have understood already long ago.

        • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

          His jargon is revealing indeed. Reversals in preference my a*s! A brainwashing away of natural proclivities, and freedom of association is what this Libtard wants to accomplish. What he is trying to accomplish is like encouraging folks that wearing their underpants over top of their blue jeans is a reversal of preference. He is literally encouraging a departure from reason.

    • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

      I reject the label “racist”. This is a Left Wing Libtard label meant to denigrate White racial realists. I am a racial realist, and I am proud to be a racial realist. I do not pre-judge each and every person by their race, but I am cognizant of the importance of race. I expect Blacks to display Negro behaviors, Asians to display Asian behaviors, and us Caucasians to display expected behaviors. There are occasional exceptions to expectation, of course, but they are, most all, exceptions. Most folks do behave as can be expected, and do exhibit racially distinct behaviors. Negro violence and sociopathy is a norm, just like Mediterranean passion and warmth of emotion, Nordic caution of sensibleness, and Asian precision and conformism. Folks that fit into these stereotypes are the norm, not the exception. We need to cast aside the hippy profile of everyone being the same. This was nothing but a rebellion against their racial realist elders by rebellious, drug addled youth.

  • Jesse James

    Great teaching technique, simple, effective, remarkable. Thanks for sharing.

  • ShermanTMcCoy

    If a white woman allows herself to be penetrated by a non-human, she has been permanently defiled. Every damned one of them should have an “N” tattooed across her forehead, so white men know in advance whom to beware.

    • Pelagian

      Dislike

      • ShermanTMcCoy

        Does it look like I give a rat’s about your opinion? Or perhaps you just prefer the purple sausage.

    • Mike Lau

      Come on…..is your brother not married to a Thai?

      Talk about hypocrisy!

      • ShermanTMcCoy

        Where is the hypocrisy? My wife is a white as they come. My brother made his own choices, but at least he didn’t get hooked up with a n*****.

        • Mike Lau

          not that ancient. looked it up —you described here as a ‘great gal’

          Now what if some female poster here described her sister’s black boyfriend as a ‘great guy’ —how would you, and other Amren people, react to that?

          See….that is where the hypocrisy lies.

          • ShermanTMcCoy

            Fair enough, Mike. But the fact remains that, though I might have wished that my brother had married someone else, she is generous, hard-working, supportive of and faithful to my brother.

            And he DID marry a blond previously, producing two handsome white nephews for me. At leaf he didn’t produce any halflings with his second wife.

          • Mike Lau

            thanks for admitting that Sherman. But lets face reality. I don’t think you, and many others here, mind one iota when you see a white man with an Asian woman.

            You see, its all about getting the p****. And less about racial integrity or purity.

            Viscerally, you recoil when you see a black man with a white woman. Because you think that white woman somehow belongs to you, or another white man.

            But when you see an Asian woman with a white man, that is all cool.

            In fact I have even seen white males, here in Hong Kong, resent it when Chinese men get Chinese women. True.

            So half of the angst on display here is simply over resources —that is females.

          • ShermanTMcCoy

            Nope, I don’t think it’s OK. FAR better is for birds of a feather to stick together. Only two whites can produce a white child, which we need many more of.

    • Fighting_Northern_Spirit

      I used to work with a woman who was at least half White (White mother, probably mostly-White mestizo father) who looked like the actress Julia Roberts. She was pretty obviously interested in me, but the pictures of her three black daughters (very very dark skinned, almost as if she contributed nothing to their genes) in her cubicle told me to steer clear. She had two of them with one black CHP officer, and the third with one of his coworkers, another CHP officer. I doubt she married any of the dads, and of course she was getting public assistance for the kids as well so we all got to pay. I was glad that she worked with me so I could know these things before starting anything. Even in those days when I was more liberal, I considered what she did permanently defiling.

      • ShermanTMcCoy

        I believe that is all I said in my posting, Once you go black, we don’t want you back.

        • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

          We certainly do not. We need to work to reach hearts and minds so that the youth know that miscegenation is racial suicide. We need to inculcate them in the pride inducing ideologies of racial realism, and preach the truth about race. We need to point out that behavior is key, and encourage a candid assessment of Negro behavior, and a proper abhorrence of it. Psychology is our tool. When used properly, Psychology can make any and every White person into a racial realist, and an unflinching segregationist.

      • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

        Ah, the influence of Black culture on brainwashed White Leftists. Multiple kids with multiple fathers, and no father in the home raising any of them. This woman may be racially White, but is culturally Negro!! Once we realize that folks like her are casualties of the Black culture assault on White culture, we will be begin to “name the Negro”. In every case like this, we need to “name the Negro”, and correct those who refer to this as “White trash” behavior. Poor Whites, before the civil rights movement, were expected to adhere to Christian cultural mores, and were rightfully socially ostracized if they engaged in the behaviors this woman has engaged in. The underlying reason was that Black culture was held in proper abhorrence by mainstream White society. When White society began glorifying Black culture, anyone with any sense should have known that we would have more and more casualties such as this woman. It is due time that that strong-willed amongst us, those of us independent minded enough to embrace the tenets of racial realism, take our stand against the inferior Black culture. We need to “name the Negro” as the root cause of situations such as this woman’s bereft moral life, and say no, openly and proudly, to Black culture.

        • Fighting_Northern_Spirit

          This woman may be racially White, but is culturally Negro!!
          .
          I’m sorry to say that is absolutely true, and it’s not at all uncommon here in Southern California. Black culture has been shoved in our faces since birth, and anyone inclined to resist fled long ago. We were born in the ’60s, so we have no memory of a time relatively uncorrupted by the Negro. I’ll also wager that the miscegenation of her parents, even though her father must’ve been mostly White, made it easier for her to do what she did.

          • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

            Fellow Generation X’er here. You are right on the money. I’m old enough to remember the residual elements of a society uncorrupted by the Negro, and that is it. Grandparents who lived their young lives in a pre-Civil Rights America offered a window into what this past was really like. With a little life under my belt, I see clearly the correctness of their views. My parents’ Generation was stupid to rebel against their elders on the race issue. Their elders knew best, and their views on race were, literally, as old as humanity. One Generation of youth casting to the wind the time honored wisdom of their elders was sheer stupidity.

  • KingKenton

    ‘Racial bias in assortative mating is a robust and ubiquitous social phenomenon and one that is difficult to surmount even with small steps in the right direction. We still have a long way to go.’

    I’m probably only repeating what has been said in other comments, but I knew the day would come when Whites were going to be psychologically raped with the message that, if you don’t date outside your race, you are a filthy racist pig. Sadly, it will be a very effective message as Whites will do ANYTHING to ensure they are not somehow infected with “racism”.

  • Fighting_Northern_Spirit

    Regarding any black, don’t confuse who he is married to with who he sleeps with.

  • itdoesnotmatter

    Cary Grant once said, “everyone wants to be Cary Grant.” Even me.

  • robinbishop34

    Take a look at this brief interview of Muhammad Ali talking to a British interviewer on the subject of integration and interracial ‘relationships.’ This is when common sense was common sense.

    http://www[dot]youtube[dot]com/watch?v=fi6fvwxB2Bg

    • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

      The good old days. When even many Negroes understood that racial boundaries, in dating, are meant to be just that. Boundaries.

  • Romulus

    Excellent,dear sir. That is precisely the technique that I used on my own nieces and nephews from the time they we’re very little to guard them against social engineering.

    All amren parents should take heed of this very simple instruction.

  • ms_anthro

    Go to the Gap’s website and look at the images they’re using to sell clothes right now. Truly nauseating.

  • ms_anthro

    Same. They don’t even seem human to me, even though I have polite acquaintances among them. We are not the same species of hominid and no amount of wishful thinking will make it so. We smell different, have different mindsets and temperaments, different potentials in intelligence and ingenuity, different time orientations, different loyalties, different skin and hair textures, different voices.

    If we were obscure rare subspecies of finches on a remote island, we’d be classified as entirely different species by biologists. But because of egalitarian fantasy, we’re supposed to pretend that our differences are only skin-deep and otherwise unremarkable. Madness! It’s as revolting to me as the thought of bestiality.

  • Herman

    One major exception: black men.
    They prefer to “date” outside their race.
    But I do think one of the reasons is because they like to piss off white people.
    That’s why they will hit on almost any white woman.

    • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

      The Negro males have always done this. In the good old days, their harassment was not appreciated by White women, and was treated with appropriate disdain. Most lynchings were a response to a sexual assault of a White woman by a Black male. My belief is that MLK was well aware of this, but was driven by a sociopathic desire to violate White women, thus his persuasive smoke screen of rhetoric about lynchings having been motivated by White folks fixating on skin color, and skin color alone. Lynchings were vigilante justice, and he knew this to be the case.

      • Brian

        I remember Oprah yakking about how millions of blacks were lynched. The actual number lynched was around 4,700, of whom 1,200 were white…hardly a holocaust.

  • Yale2001

    So following this P.C ideology. If your a heterosexual, your homophobic.

  • Yale2001

    Me either. My friends will often go out of their way to seem very polite and friendly for fear of being considered “racist”, but this always blows up in their face when the black guys start flirting. Then they panic and don’t know what to do. I know they find black-white relationships disgusting but they over-compensate and put themselves in the dilemma they hate the most. They have put themselves in very dangerous situations because of this. The good thing is that they are FINALLY learning. They are starting to learn to ignore them and simply leave if their (black) numbers rise above a comfortable level.

  • Yale2001

    Yea, If your white and breathing.

  • ShermanTMcCoy

    Definitely boon target.

  • Massif1

    Dailymail has a news story almost everyday about why white women shouldn’t date black men.

    • Magician

      Should or shouldn’t?

  • Andy

    Topics like this have deep subconscious links that are not especially cognitive relevant.
    Lust is exactly such a topic that cries out for artistic expression–not a journalism of mere
    facts, basic and indispensable as such journalism is. Our primate natures are such that
    the campus typical “wet and ready” “hookup” sex conveys, via our evolved reflexes, thatsocial class does not exist, that genes do not exist, and that at long long last in human”progress” something (cloud high orgasms, etc. ) that is too good to be true is both goodand true. Sure thing. In the Christian concept of the composite of fear and love,a fear based (Faulkner: fear is the basest of all things ) sexual intercourse is like a fear-informed driving of an automobile—leading to seat belts, driver courtesy, and road law obedience—it’s a very safe matter that is unlikely to end up in the ditch. E. O. Wilson’s brilliant commentaries bout human sexuality lead beyond the shallow “evidence of the sense” into the realization of how pathetically humans generally fail to enter upon their internal ledger books the multitude of “small” penalties for vigorous lust–i.e, a six seconds of orgastic ecstacy is deposited in our accounts but the multitude of smaller “costs” are not acknowledged. Try to run your business like that and the government will award you a memorable paid vacation. There is no greater illusion in contemporary life than that which posits contemporary sexuality as , on balance, representing progress, virtue, of genuine satisfaction. But this is a matter of genuinely Experiencing the “sexual revolution”–not a task of journalism or sociology but of art–. Don’t wait for it to issue forth from “our” Hollywood. .

  • Bardon Kaldian

    This is old stuff. What’s new ? It’s from blog okcupid. Google “How Your Race Affects The Messages You Get”
    ………
    The numbers on the perimeter of the table are the weighted average rates for each column/row. Here’s what we can know:

    Black women write back the most.
    Whether it’s due to talkativeness, loneliness, or a sense of plain
    decency, black women are by far the most likely to respond to a first
    contact attempt. In many cases, their response rate is one and a half
    times the average, and, overall, black women reply about a quarter more often that other women.

    White men get more responses.
    Whatever it is, white males just get more replies from almost every
    group. We were careful to preselect our data pool so that physical
    attractiveness (as measured by our site picture-rating utility) was
    roughly even across all the race/gender slices. For guys, we did
    likewise with height.

    White women prefer white men to the exclusion of everyone else—and Asian and Hispanic women prefer them even more exclusively. These three types of women only respond well to white men. More significantly, these groups’ reply rates to non-whites is terrible. Asian women write back non-white males at 21.9%, Hispanic women at 22.9%, and white women at 23.0%. It’s here where things get interesting, for white women in particular. If you look at the match-by-race table before this one, the “should-look-like” one, you see that white women have an above-average compatibility with almost every group. Yet they only reply well to guys who look like them. There’s more data on this towards the end of the post.

  • mrcan

    yet we are supposed to celebrate multiculturalism and diversity and all of the mundane aspects of every culture with the exception of White European culture. We should argue that miscegenation destroys cultural diversity and that different races should stick together to preserve their uniqueness. We need to put a positive spin on this!

    • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

      Yes!! We also need to encourage a positive dialogue on our White cultures as often as possible, and discourage any worship of the inferior Black culture. This can be done even in the politically correct workplace. When Blacks are not present, we can describe, and appropriately critique the bad behaviors they constantly engage in, as well as expressing disdain for their culture (rap music, unprovoked physical violence, untalented singers being handed record contracts, etc.). We can express much without “naming the Negro”, with a tacit understanding of the underlying issue that catalyzes what we speak of, that being race.

  • M.

    A couple of years ago, a Kuwaiti female MP candidate called for importing white husbands to Kuwait to “improve the offspring.”
    Goes to show you that even non-White know deep down that we’re not “all the same”.
    http://www(dot)emirates247(dot)com/news/region/kuwaiti-women-need-to-buy-foreign-husbands-2011-06-27-1.404732

  • Pelagian

    How do you even know if a slant is giving you the eye? their eyes don’t open except imperceptibly.

  • me

    As long as the money is American green, they don’t care what color the man is….

  • M.

    ..

  • Guest

  • I’m a tall, fit nerdy Celtic/Amerind guy, and I like “getting at them” as well.

  • Sensitivity Training

    Everything we do on the computer reveals that we are racists.

    Even if all you do on the computer is apologize for White privilege, worship the blacks, and demonstrate a “passionate commitment to Diversity,” you are still a racist, because you didn’t “take action” soon enough.

    • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

      Well said. White racial realists need to speak the truth amongst trusted friends, so that we can pave the way for the rebuilding of our racial consciousness. Once hearts and minds are back, we can reclaim our racial destiny as White Europeans.

  • Sensitivity Training

    Of course, because White people do it, and Hitler did it, so we are all Nazis.

  • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

    No surprises in this article, that is for sure. According to the Libtard author, it is racist for a White person to follow our heart when dating, but non-Whites are expected to do so. This is the kind of rubbish that we, as White racial realists, need to specifically disregard and abhor. Miscegenation is against God’s will. If God wanted Caucasians to have intimate relations with Negroes or Asians, he would not have put the races in specific parts of the world, separated by geographical barriers that have only been traversed, ironically, through the intrepid explorations of Europeans in the last several hundred years. Miscegenation sounds the death knell for European culture. Youth should be taught to say no to miscegenation just the same as they are taught to say no to drugs.

  • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

    In a just world, South African Whites would be offered a new home in America, and American Blacks encouraged to re-settle in South Africa. I don’t know how you guys maintain your sanity surrounded by such a sea of violent Negroes. My prayers are with you guys on a daily basis.

  • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

    Yes!! I am sure that he will. Mr. Taylor is awesome!!!

  • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

    I pray that you are right. After all, these days, with the Baby Boomers rapidly becoming the elder generation, there is nothing rebellious about stupid egalitarian beliefs about people being the same everywhere we go. Rebelling, these days, entails rebelling against these now old and moldy hippy era beliefs that have so obviously created such immense problems. Rebellious, these days, is being a racial realist. As youth question parents and grandparents, yes, I hope that a racial reawakening sweeps over Whites.

  • Brian

    ‘Based on a lifetime of experiences in a racist and racially segregated
    society, people anticipate discrimination on the part of a potential
    recipient and are largely unwilling to reach out in the first place,’ he
    said.

    Utter bollocks. There are many reasons I don’t want to date a black woman, and fear that she will discriminate against me is not even on the list.

    ‘Racial bias in assortative mating is a robust and ubiquitous social
    phenomenon and one that is difficult to surmount even with small steps
    in the right direction. We still have a long way to go.’

    Why shouldn’t it be difficult to surmount? ‘The right direction’? ‘Long way to go? …this idiot is not even trying to hide it!

    • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

      Right on the money Brian. Libtard bollocks all the way from this Loony Leftie author!!! We racial realists must place exactly zero stock in everything this idiot has to say.

  • Mike Lau

    Yes —-includes white men who date Asian women. They are insulting white women. Keep your hands off our women!

  • Yale2001

    Just talking about this still makes me nauseated.

  • Brian

    The ancient Greek word for actor was ‘hypokrites’…

  • Jack Burton

    Other studies also show that White females specifically seek White males more than White males specifically seek White females, which goes against the common preconception.

    The idiot in this article is confused, Whites that want a same-race partner don’t do so because of some kind of “bias” or merely because they haven’t given a non-White a chance. Most Whites still want White children. I want a White woman because I want White children, it’s that simple.

  • Sick of it

    Thank you for having standards. That really is becoming a rare thing.

  • GOD

    Blacks will always be the least desired race. 1,000 years from now, the same will be the case.

  • Romulus

    Thank God! I become enraged when I see beautiful golden ratio white females with homo heidelbergensis! Even in the American South, who have the longest historyin america living with the groids ,you’d think this practice would still be unthinkable.
    I despaired that leftist media garbage propaganda would brainwash the descendants of the Vikings in South Africa to mingle with those #&@$!%*©.
    Why would it be considered a good thing if the Boer we’re all turned into DEBLASIO’s kid?!

    I can’t tell you how relieved I am to hear you say
    that mudsharking is rare. My prayers be with you. Spartacus has provided links so that we can send donations to help.

  • M.

    Then where else would they get “foreign handsome polite white men” from?
    Arabs pretty much all look alike. I can’t see how Egyptians would “improve the offspring” of Kuwaitis. That is, if they can find a handsome polite white Egyptian.
    The only foreign white Muslims are Albanians and Kosovars.

    I think what she had in mind was, import a nice full-blooded Caucasian dude and convert him to Islam.

  • Pelagian

    “If most whites would drop their guilt and/or fear of being called a ‘racist’ most (not all) all our problems would go away. Seriously. ”

    Except for the problem of black violence. which this would solve.

    I think that’s the reason why whites go along with living in mortal fear of being called ‘racist’. If we get called racist, then were “open season” for black violence: blacks want to hurt us and whites wont protect us.

  • Magician

    “LeBron could have had a non-black woman of any race, considering his wealth and talent. Yet he stuck to his guns? Impressive.”

    I am not impressed or surprised

    Roughly 90% of all African American NBA athletes are married to or dating African American women

    And among the remaining 10% half of them are with Asian or Hispanic women

  • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

    I am glad that there are a few decent Grandparents like yourself left these days. Whites of the Baby Boomer Generation are generally in denial about racial reality in America. I think that many are too proud to admit that their rebellion against their elders on race issues, in their younger days, was pure stupidity. I wish a few members of this generation would come out publicly, and speak the truth about this. They need to admit that their Generation was wrong to listen to the media instead of their elders.

  • OHDeutscheKlezmerRebel

    They are these days. But what about the old days? I hate to think that the late Jimmy Stewart was anything but the man of integrity we saw on the Silver Screen. I’d be shocked if he wasn’t a racial realist, as racial realism was considered common sense in his generation. His generation rightfully felt that the hippies were turning America upside down, and much of this was due to the stupid hippy ideas on race.

  • Magician

    Hm this thread has fewer posts than I first expected….. usually a thread on interracial dating has 400 or more responses. (And roughly a third of those are young white men saying “Asian women do anything it takes to date white men”)

  • Boris_baiter

    Yes, but this is just a corollary of the general law that guys love “getting at” women…..

  • nunyabidnessfoo

    This is stupid. Most “Asians and Indians” tend to be first or second generation. Recent immigrants tend to be more endogamous than their descendants. This was true of “white” immigrants in generations past and it’s true of “non-white” immigrants today.

    Do this study again in fifty years and tell me if the results are the same.

  • “found the tendency to initiate contact with someone from a shared race,
    is weakest among whites, the
    study said.”

    JL: Bull crap.
    Inter-ethnic marriages among Whites and Asians have significantly increased while Whites choosing an African-American partner have only increased “very slightly.”

    However, “WHY”…does the White-owned mainstream media focus almost exclusively on “Black male-White female marriages?!”
    Of the total number of “married Black men” in the U.S…..ONLY 8%…are married to White women.

    On the other hand….48% of “married Japanese women” in the U.S…..are married to White men….6 times the percentage for Black men.

  • “This guy, at the time, had a beautiful White wife at home in the states”

    JL: HOW many White male plantation owners…left the bed of their White wives….and went to the slave quarters to have forced sex…with enslaved Black women and girls?! Tens of thousands of them did so.