Posted on November 10, 2011

Black Women Have Amazing Confidence, Survey Shows

Julee Wilson, Huffington Post, November 9, 2011


Allure magazine polled 2,000 men and women from across the country in an attempt to find out “what’s beautiful now.”

And when African American women were asked about their personal attractiveness, “they were three times as likely as Caucasian women to rate themselves at the ‘hot’ end of the spectrum.”


Beverly Bond, founder of “Black Girls Rock,” is trying to plant the seed of self-confidence early. Her organization helps create, reaffirm and/or reclaim that self-worth in young girls across the country.

“I want our young girls to be inspired to not settle for being less than their best selves,” Bond told the Associated Press. “I want them to feel proud of who they are and who they can be and who we have been.”


56 responses to “Black Women Have Amazing Confidence, Survey Shows”

  1. DC Metro Rider says:

    Spend some time on public transportation in a black area, and you’ll easily find visual confirmation of this “amazing confidence”. Black women on the subway proudly wear dresses five sizes too small, and that’s just the beginning…

  2. john says:

    This merely confirms that low IQ contributes to delusional thinking.

  3. Nick says:

    That should be no surprise to anyone who knows black women.

    I would imagine black men have an even higher opinion of themselves (if possible).

  4. Frank Ellis says:

    I would like to hear the views of Satoshi Kanazawa on this subject. He is the author of ‘Why are black women less physically attractive than other women?’

  5. Cliff Yablonski says:

    THREE times more likely to rate themselves as “HOT”, yet 70% of black women in America are classified as obese?

    Food for thought.

  6. Rhialto says:

    In my neighborhood, we call it higher testosterone levels in black women than in those of other races.

  7. Chicagoan says:

    Part of their problem is their great capacity for delusion and detachment from reality. Throw in the apparent conceitedness and you have a very bad combination indeed.

  8. Anonymous says:

    I see: all that purported “racism” doesn’t affect black womens’ self-esteem to the extent that they don’t have a good self-image – in fact, they have a superior body image. It just prevents them from making the effort to get a good education, marry, have children in wedlock, raise those children without public assistance, have a work ethic or one of abiding by the law. My, my, isn’t “racism” selective in its effects!

  9. ice says:

    “Black Women Have Amazing Confidence, Survey Shows”

    It’s not confidence. It’s as I said many times before: It’s black arrogance….based in stupidity. They’re blind to their own short comings and so are the men.

    I’ve noted often how they crow when they do the least little thing right or advance in something even though the move was the result of AA…and strictly AA, in order to have a token black face.

    Look at Herman Cain right now. He was awarded a CEO position in order to have a black represented among the corporate greed mongers, but he’s so arrogant he perceives that he advanced on his own ability.

    This inborn arrogance has convinced him he’s presidential material even though he has always exhibited a mediocre mentality.

    Arrogance is not confidence, but it can be dangerous. Take them down a notch or two and show them what a paper figure they are and they’re ready to kill.

    Blacks fall in love with themselves easier than any other race on earth.

  10. Tim in Indiana says:

    So much for the canard of “low black self-esteem.”

    But if black women are so “hot,” then why do so many black men seem to be drawn to white women?

  11. HH says:

    Well of course they do – these Black women believe their waddling, corpulent selves to be “hot” in a physical state most Whites would consider disgracefully obese and unsightly! And they are SERIOUS!! They know not the meaning of shame, so at that rate I suppose anything goes.

  12. Dom says:

    And Japanese and Germans aren’t proud of their nations while Colombians, Mexicans and black South Africans are…Often people who don’t have any logical reason think highly of themselves and show irrational pride.

  13. Bebe says:

    Beverly Bond, founder of “Black Girls Rock,” is trying to plant the seed of self-confidence early. Her organization helps create, reaffirm and/or reclaim that self-worth in young girls across the country.


    Says it all right there. Implanting delusional thinking. Self esteem is EARNED not given out like candy on Halloween.

    Most black women I have seen are arrogant and loud, have false delusions about their “beauty” even the most obese of black women think they are “hot”.

    Whites are more realistic and tend to deny their sexiness or appeal. I have known beautiful White girls that do not even know they are beautiful and who do not find that being so, is not a recipe for happiness or success. Of course, there are exceptions to the rule.

  14. lefty says:

    An abundance of self confidence can be termed ‘wonderful’ or it can be called narcissism. Most criminals actually don’t suffer from self esteem issues at all. Like these wonderfully empowered black women, they esteem themselves highly, all evidence to the contrary be damned.

  15. Veritas says:

    I see a lot of black women who are a svelte 250 pounds– they squeeze themselves into a dress, force on some pumps and waddle down the street feeling “hot”. But I’m also certain that the standards they have and the ones this white boy has couldn’t be further apart. “Hot” definitely is a relative term in this case, but if it helps their self-esteem, it can’t hurt I guess. What is weird is when the likes of a Queen Latifah becomes the standard for beauty. It’s the same old double standard that applies to blacks.

  16. Justin says:

    Confident or delusional? I don’t find them even remotely attractive. Hey if you want to keep telling yourself you’re “hot”, go for it, but I don’t think very many White men aspire to marry a Black women.

  17. Anonymous says:

    It’s a mental self-defence mechanism. Africans who show weakness or self-doubt get eaten alive by other Africans.

    Gentle people they are not. This is why they are winners in the biological struggle to procreate and survive.

  18. Anonymous says:

    3 — Nick wrote at 5:27 PM on November 10:

    That should be no surprise to anyone who knows black women.

    I would imagine black men have an even higher opinion of themselves (if possible).


    Yes, black men are the same way…Examples are the ever pompous, popular Herman Cain, rap artists, black actors, sports stars, black thugs swaggering down the street pants down to their knees holding their crotches, hitting on White women all the time with their “charm” and the list is endless. Both sexes of the black race are delusional.

  19. Wayne Engle says:

    Looks like black women fit the popular definition of clueless: “Seldom right, but never in doubt.” Judging by the black women you might see strolling down an urban street, the only way many of them are “hot” is because of all the extra weight they’re carrying.

  20. Strider says:

    Actually I worked with several slim, good-looking black women during the 1980s. But that was in my USAF days, and the service had strict weight policies that everyone had to follow, regardless of race or sex. (This was the pre-PC, pre-AA military, where the word “equal” meant exactly that.) Fast-forward to the present, and I find myself agreeing with the others here — seeing a sexy black woman is like being dealt four of a kind in a poker game. It’s possible, but very rare.

  21. Distant Observer says:

    In a related phenomena, unqualified black men declare themselves ready to be president of the United States.

  22. Anonymous says:

    I believe 9-ice hit the nail on the head with his comment “It’s not confidence. It’s as I said many times before: It’s black arrogance…. based in stupidity. They’re blind to their own shortcomings and so are the men.”

    Truer words were never spoken.

    And why among most blacks you never see any humility, grace, integrity or compassion. The more highly evolved human traits seem absent in the majority of any blacks that I have observed. Even when black mothers have a child killed, there never really seems to be any tears, just lots of screaming, yelling and flopping around. They make a scene, I think, just to make it look like they are grieving. Plus it brings the attention back to themselves.

  23. Godefroy de Bouillon says:

    They feel that way because women with thick bodies and big bottoms are considered highly attractive in black cultures regardless of facial beauty or personality. This is why most interracial couples typically involve a plain overweight or obese White woman. Considering that 4 out of 5 Black women is overweight or obese, it’s no wonder that they would see themselves as “hot” after all. I have nothing against strong curvy women myself when they are smart and facially attractive, but this is just another example how different blacks are from the rest of humanity.

  24. Anonymous says:

    Everyone on this thread should look up the definition of the Dunning Kruger Effect:

  25. Anonymous says:

    “Beverly Bond, founder of “Black Girls Rock,” is trying …”

    Is there something named “White girls rock” or is that racist?

    “they were three times as likely as Caucasian women to rate themselves at the ‘hot’ end of the spectrum.”

    Maybe that is the problem.

    -Although even black men are looking for white girls, black women think they are hot.

    -Although 70% of them don’t know who their father his, they think they are reasonable.

    -Although every school and test shows their low IQ and discipline they think they are very intelligent.

    And when reality doesn’t fit with their thinking, the blame it on whites. Liberals thought (and think) if they would help blacks, they will be thankful and respectful and everybody can live together in peace.

    But the truth is, after in Europe we helped them but letting them in, they call us names, rape our daughters, beat up our sons and invade our homes.

  26. karsten says:

    Okay, I have to swim against the tide in this comment thread. But before I do, let me vehemently agree with everyone, from Satoshi Kanazawa to the commentators here, who affirm that black women are generally quite unattractive. That is simply a fact. No one finds them attractive, not white men and not black men.

    BUT, it’s appalling to see that the reaction to this news is largely, “Black women should feel just as ashamed of themselves as white women,” instead of what it should be, which is, “Why can’t white women have a little more confidence in themselves?”

    The flip side of all of this “obesity” talk is that white women are easy prey for the diet industry, the exercise industry, the cosmetics industry, the plastic surgery industry, and every other industry that makes money off of making women (white women) feel horrible about their appearance.

    That this fact leads many white women towards eating disorders like anorexia and towards paying plastic surgeons to butcher them is bad enough.

    But what’s even worse is that it makes them dupes for the ideology behind these feel-bad industries. In her book “Spin Sisters,” a former editor of one of the women’s magazines admits that all of these industries couple the selling of products with the promotion of a left-wing agenda that involves every aspect of cultural Marxism, from a gay agenda to an anti-white agenda to a socialist agenda, and so forth. Try picking up an issue of Glamour someday. It’s ten steps to the left of Rachel Maddow and MSNBC.

    So in other words, the low self-esteem among white women means (a) that they fork over their money (which as often as not means their husbands’ money) towards industries that are owned by our enemies (the propagators of cultural Marxism), and thus financially support the ideological dismantling of traditionalism, and (b) that they imbibe that cultural Marxism themselves and bring it into the home, foisting it on their children.

    Perhaps if white women had a little MORE self-confidence, they wouldn’t be such easy marks for these industries that sell them unhappiness (and sell them liberalism in the process).

    Sure, black women’s high self-esteem is unwarranted. But the real corrosive fact in this study is not that black women have too much self-esteem, but that women women have too little.

  27. olewhitelady says:

    The esteem of black women would ideally entail opinions of themselves as good parents and good citizens, not as hot mamas who get visited by ten ghetto studs per month. Most low-IQ black girls apparently believe they’re attractive and worthy simply because some oversexed male is willing to impregnate them at age 13.

    This writer must simply be trying to preach to the choir, saying what she believes most black women want to hear.

  28. Skeleton Key says:

    Even black men find black women revolting. From the comment section:

    As a Proud Black Man I realize that confidence is not what is missing in my black sistas…i­t’s manners, culture, attractive­ness, intelligen­ce and oh yes, humility they lack!

    The one thing I would say to ‘thick’ sisters (and that’s being polite) is to wear flattering clothing. That whole thing about them making it in your size is not the way to go. Flashing the muffing top is NOT a look. Neither is neck tats… I was in an Aldi’s and some BBW came in wearing a bikini bottom and I was like DANG, GURL!!! LOL. I couldn’t stop staring at that fashion train wreck. And flashing stretch marks is the classy finish to the outfit.

  29. Simon Jester says:

    No comment, just look at the pic.

  30. Luke says:

    “18 — Anonymous wrote at 9:28 PM on November 10:

    Yes, black men are the same way…Examples are the ever pompous, popular Herman Cain, rap artists, black actors, sports stars, black thugs swaggering down the street pants down to their knees holding their crotches, hitting on White women all the time with their “charm” and the list is endless. Both sexes of the black race are delusional.”

    Many studies have been done whereby school age kids are given surveys which are supposed to measure their levels of ‘self-esteem’. Oddly enough, White kids who almost always do far better academically, who are almost always better behaved and well-mannered, who exhibit far more self-discipline than do the black kids in the same schools – will almost always score far lower on the ‘self-esteem’ chart than will those same black kids. Black kids, on the other hand, are largely ineducable and thanks to integration of the public school system – have literally destroyed what were once the highest achieving, most respected around the world – public education system.

    So, the question arises: From whence do these incompetent, unruly, undisciplined, often times violent and disruptive, and generally very low IQ, academic failure oriented black kids get all their high ‘self-esteem’? It most certainly isn’t a result of any ‘pride’ derived from being academically talented, because the vast majority aren’t intellectually capable of performing up to White educational standards. Well, I have a theory about this mystery.

    First, since the disaster of public school integration began – I think that the liberal left instinctively understood that there were going to be insurmountable racial differences in academic performance between whites and blacks (which there has been) , and so they immediately began to (a) water down the school curriculum to make it less and less challenging and less complex, and (b) modify the new, simplified curriculum to emphasis methods design to artificially boost the self-esteem of black kids in order to make them feel good about themselves. Bringing in ‘black studies’ programs is one example – whereby young and not very savvy black kids are being told that their race invented all sorts of amazing things, and by making sure that plenty of anti-white perniciousness is generously ladled on top of that largely phony propaganda to give them the idea that whites have been sneakily working to suppress and cheat the black geniuses out of most of the ‘credit’ that they should have received for the vast and unparalleled contributions that black Einsteins have given to the World.

    Correspondingly, curriculims – and particularly in the area of American and European history – were revised and a massive anti-white Cultural Marxist oriented program was instituted and which has deliberately and with premeditated malice aforethought – been used to demonize White historical achievements, to smear and defame what were once considered White American or White European historical ‘heroes’ – and to push endless quantities of ‘White Guilt’, ‘White Self-Loathing’ and to basically destroy the ability of young White children to be taught about the history of their ancestors and have that history taught to them in a pride instilling fashion.

    Therefore, it’s my gut feeling that the combination of these two virulently anti-White tactics by the Cultural Marxist enemies of White European people have produced this bizarre and ludicrous reversal of normal human behavior between blacks and whites.

    The solution to this is for white parents to home school their children, at least in the area of American and European history. If parents can get their hands on American history text books that were written before the Cultural Marxist takeover of our society in the mid-1960s, those books can be a valuable source of non-poisoned material and can be used for home schooling purposes.

  31. Anónimo says:

    Blacks also think that they invented interplanetary flight and the first White person in a botched experiment.

    In addition to being mentally impaired, it’s obvious that the impairment extends to their vision as well.

  32. Istvan says:

    I work with black women whose feet actually pour over the tops of their shoes they are so obese. They dress “sexy” with super tight clothes, excessive jewelery, orange colored hair or nylon wigs, and tons of makeup. I wish I worked with more Queen Latiffas, it would be an improvement.

  33. June Warren says:

    If black women are so “hot”, why do black men swarm every blond they meet? I’ve been at mixed parties where the black woman are in separate groups while the black males are all clustered around any blond in sight.

  34. Korean guy says:

    Well Black ladies should at least have confidence if they want to win the hearts of any remaining eligible black bachelors… Confidence always makes men and women attractive. It does make me a bit sad when I hear there are some black women having trouble finding eligible young single black men because of too many of them are currently behind bars… or not practically ready to be married and support a family.

  35. Anonymous says:

    Black women ARE “hot” technically. If you can step out of your house, go almost anywhere in your community and have a 100% success rate of scoring anonymous sex, then technically, you are “hot”.

    It’s not black women that are delusional but black men who are deeply sick and perverted and who will literally screw anything and anyone, often by force……including, VERY often, each other (many black men are gay on top of it all).

    Black women, for their part have almost no morals and are riddled with STD’s. And could never keep any of these men around long enough to learn their names (but have no problem getting pregnant and letting white people pay). They also have no interest in raising the children, which causes all sorts of disturbing behaviors.

  36. Anonymous says:

    A colleague recently told me of a black girl who was about to graduate from college and wanted to go to graduate school. When the girl was told that with a D average, she would not be able to get into graduate school, she responded “But my counselor told me I could be anything I wanted to be!”

  37. Anonymous says:

    I think what we are seeing here is a mischaracterization of the term “confidence”. Really confident people are often very low key and subdued. They know they have nothing to prove. This is usually the exact opposite of the loud, vulgar behaviour we find in “confident” blacks. The type of “confidence” we see in blacks is usually a mix of narcissism, arrogance and delusional thinking. A five year old kid might pick his nose in public and think nothing of it. But this is not “confidence” in defying social conventions. The child simply doesn’t have the critical capacity to understand what he is doing is considered wrong. Still the findings don’t surprise me. I worked with many blacks over the years and they all had views of themselves completely at odds with reality. All the black women I worked with were obese, some of them morbidly so, but they all believed they were “hot”. This one black guy was always broke, forever being chased by lending agencies he had stiffed, was as dumb as a bag of rocks, but he just thought the world of himself. I never met anyone with such a high opinion of himself and so little justification for it.

  38. Cid Martel says:

    I don’t know how many times I’ve heard the biggest, fatest, scariest looking black females saying ” I KNOW I look gooood…” yep, it’s a black thang.

  39. Anonymous says:

    Confidence is best built on a foundation of competence, otherwise it is merely foolish arrogance.

  40. Netzach says:

    To understand this (and a lot of why a lot of underclass minorities behave so badly), one needs to understand that self-confidence has two distinct factors. Can’t recall the official terms, but they’re basically the strength and durability of self-esteem. Basically, there are two very different types of high self-respect.

    1) High strength, high durability. This kind of person thinks, actually knows deep down that he’s hot stuff one way or another. Most of the times, this is correlated with actually being good in something and being treated with honest respect by others. Since the self-esteem of this person is so solid, he can, if he so chooses, to disregard insults. They don’t present any threat to his self-esteem.

    2) High strength, low durability. This kind of person also thinks he’s hot stuff, but deep down he isn’t really sure about it at all. This correlates with general incompetence and subsequent disrespect by others. Maybe those others try to hide their lack of respect, maybe they’re genuinely afraid, and often the person tells himself that’s respect, real validation of his high self-esteem. Still, human brain is very good at picking up subtle emotional cues, and even if those unwelcome pieces of information don’t penetrate all the way up to consciousness, they’ll build up on subconscious level. This contradiction between two mental models makes the self-esteem shaky, and easily threatened by insults or any perceived disrespect. Having your sense of self-worth rocked is rather hurtful, and it tends to trigger some defensive reflex. It can be something like labeling the offender “racist” or whatever turns him completely worthless know-nothing whose opinions can be safely disregarded. A lot of the time, the painful attack is taken like a punch in the gut, and it triggers seriously aggressive response. Growing up in underclass increases the prevalence of this strong-but-fragile combination (in a way love of yourself is one of the few things you have), and seriously increases the likelihood of violent response. You can call genuinely sexy woman ugly without much risk from anything worse than withering insults, and that only if she has a nasty character. Don’t try this with some baleen woman from a ghetto, though.

    This is the lot of most blacks in USA (Muslims in Europe too, for that matter). They hear from each other and some whites they’re just as good, and actually morally superior because da white boy be raciss. Still, the state of black America is a everyday counterargument to that (and there are plenty of problems for which invoking racism is really stretching it), and just about everyone else regards them with either open distaste, avoidance or patronizing largesse. The last may be advantageous in many ways, but it’s not very encouraging to have some liberal pat you on your back and soothingly murmur: “There there, boy, we all know you can’t compete on equal terms with others, so let us help you.”

    So sure, in a way black America suffers from low self-esteem. It suffers from high self-esteem too. It wouldn’t be so bad if it wasn’t both.

  41. Kwaku Minta says:

    As a black person, I don’t see it as delusional or low IQ as some of you say. I think that it all boils down to maintaining the self-esteem that is so fragile and valuable to black women, because the alternative is to face reality; which is to admit that black females may not be as “hot” as they perceive themselves to be. (Hence, self-hatred).

    For the longest time, blacks have struggled to overcome this deep-seated feeling of inferiority that has been ingrained into their collective psyches. Blacks, particularly the females, will do whatever it takes to avoid that horrible feeling of worthlessness. If that means resorting to delusions of grandeur, then so be it.

    If there’s a solution to this dilemma, it’s that blacks need to come to terms with who they really are, both physically and mentally. This is not to say that blacks are undesirable. It just means that “Black is Beautiful” in its own distinct way, while not demeaning the beauty of other racial groups.

    A good amount of self-esteem is essential to every human being’s mental health. But when that confidence grows out of proportion or borders on arrogance, that’s when trouble arises. A regulated amount of self-confidence will help many, particularly black females, avoid the mental trap that is arrogance.

  42. Question Diversity says:

    30 Luke and 40 Netzach:

    Needless to say, I’ve copied both of your explanations into a text file and saved it. I think I’ll be needing them again in the near future.

    For me, I don’t think the answer is complicated. Blacks have a naturally higher self-esteem, even if you don’t artificially pump it up, because they have low IQs. It’s easy for low IQ people to feel good about themselves because they’re unaware of their own deficiencies. High IQ whites are aware of their shortcomings because of their high IQ, and therefore have a lower self-esteem “out of the box.” It’s also why the white suicide rate is higher.

  43. Anonymous says:

    Question Diversity makes a valid point. I often wonder, when I’m around blacks (between 5-6 days a week) why they seem so utterly oblivious to everyone else around them and seem to have so little capacity for honest self-reflection.

    They also seem oblivious to how others view them. They do seem to have a high opinion of themselves which no one but them shares.

    Regarding #40’s comment: “I think that it all boils down to maintaining the self-esteem that is so fragile.”

    What a load of it. Anyone who’s spent time with black women listening to them cackle and shout away LOUDLY, obnoxiously, rudely, without regard to anyone else around them, creating scenes in public, knows there’s nothing fragile about them.

  44. Distant Observer says:

    I have a question for the “hot” obese ladies. If you are so attractive, why are you never included as bikini girls in those rapper music videos? The girls in such videos are all black but they don’t have an ounce of fat on them.

  45. Anonymous says:

    Reply to Netzach:

    May I commend you on a very insightful and intelligent post. Many blacks HAVE to maintain a charade of having high self-esteem since the truth is simply to painful to face.

    Reply to Kwaku Minta:

    “……because the alternative is to face reality.”

    So blacks must live in a kind of fantasy world, where unpleasant facts like the truth are excluded. But the truth, is well, the truth.

    Reply to Question Diversity:

    “..It’s easy for low-I.Q. people to feel good about themselves because they’re unaware of their own deficiencies.”

    That is very true. I used to work as a camp guide and helper with marginally retarded youngsters. They all exuded happiness and confidence and were never plagued by any self-doubt or angst. Unlike teens of normal intelligence, they never worried about acne, wearing braces, etc. They simply didn’t have the capacity for this. I sometimes wondered if they weren’t better off. Sometimes, you can have too much intelligence.

  46. Iron Helm says:

    The part of the brain that makes people feel anxious or lack confidence is surely the same part that makes people feel shame or guilt.

  47. Anonymous says:

    I myself spent a lot of time in advanced science classes in college. The vast majority of my fellow students on a personal level were what you might call slightly neurotic. They are the exact opposite of Blacks. The average IQ was 130+. European Jews who are known for very high IQs are known for personal neurotic behavior. I also have noticed it in high IQ Gentiles. I agree with another poster who said it is a part of the brain that accounts for it. In other words the Blacks own stupidity tends to give them a sense of inflated ego! Talk about an irony!

  48. Netzach says:

    #42 Question Diversity and #45 Anon,

    Many thanks.

    Obviously, the high confidence has many reasons, but I do not believe it plausible to chalk it all up to naturally higher self-esteem or low IQ. Especially not since it has taken such distinctly overblown and grossly vulnerable form.


    Methinks the ladies doth protest too much, and on some level they know it. Now, mind you, “fragile” in this context doesn’t mean something that can be easily broken. Just something that can be easily shaken and threatened, necessitating some kind of defensive behaviour (often blowing up and making a huge scene, or downright physical attack). Neither does having a high but fragile self-esteem mean one can’t be massively egoistical.

  49. Anonymous says:

    “35 — Anonymous wrote at 12:16 PM on November 11:

    “Black women ARE “hot” technically. If you can step out of your house, go almost anywhere in your community and have a 100% success rate of scoring anonymous sex, then technically, you are “hot”.’

    “It’s not black women that are delusional but black men who are deeply sick and perverted and who will literally screw anything and anyone, often by force……including, VERY often, each other (many black men are gay on top of it all).”

    This posts nails it. After all those years as a probation officer and having the rape case load of the entire country for some of these years I’m very aware of black sexual customs.

    Black men, not just rapists will do it with anything that has an orfice, man, woman, child, baby, animal or poultry; as long as it’s alive or just recently dead.

    It is astonishing how many black women from the most respectable church going affirmative action government jobs sector have their first sexual experiences at 8 or so from the hands of brothers, maternal relatives, mamma’s friends etc.

    Since they are constantly, constantly being hit on even by brothers, they think they are hot because they are convenient receptacles that are used all the time.

  50. Anonymous says:

    The average IQ was 130+. European Jews who are known for very high IQs are known for personal neurotic behavior.


    I read before that they are very paranoid. I guess neurotic goes along with that.

  51. Anonymous says:

    Cain is leading in the polls,the testimony of four white women made him even more popular. Every tv commercial has some light skinned skinny black girl dancing around, even with white men. I think they have won

  52. Jim says:

    Black girls think of themselves as “HOT”??

    Oh, that’s just…just too weird. I couldn’t come up with a better example of the fundamental differences between blacks and whites than that. It comes down to perceptions of reality.

  53. joe says:

    I think Black women try to psych themselves up to make up for their undesirable weight and how they feel about themselves. If a black woman is normal weight, acts normal (not ethnically) and is polite, she should have no problems when it comes to relationships.

  54. Anonymous says:


    if what you say is accurate, and I have no reason to doubt you. The very idea that we let our your White beautiful girls near these creatures represents the greatest failure of an older generation can bestow on their own children. We should be ashamed of ourselves.

  55. Hunter Morrow says:

    The most obese race/gender combination in America rates itself as “hot” 3 times as likely as the race/gender combination that everybody is trying to have sex with.

    Deliver me from sassy, “Ebony” 300 pounders with horse hair weaves who just got dey nailz did. Yuck.

  56. Bardon says:

    The fact is, blacks -as a rule- are not very introspective people. A Black introvert is a rarity. Frankly, I don’t know why this is so. I don’t know also why black people are, generally, more “happy” than whites or Asians.

    Perhaps the entire luggage of culture, guilt, parental expectations, inquisitive intelligence, strict moral rules … does not exist for them.

    And then- suicide. Whites and Asians are suicidal to a rather high degree. American Indians/Native Americans too. Blacks- not. Why, I dunno.