Inside a Family’s Move to Self-Deport From the US
Priscilla Alvarez and Nicky Robertson, CNN, July 9, 2025
Sasha and Julio Mendoza are saying goodbye to the United States for good.
But the decision didn’t come easily.
The two identify as Pittsburgh natives — arguably Julio more than Sasha, they joke, even though he arrived in the United States when he was 11 years old.
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Julio is an undocumented immigrant from Mexico. Sasha and their three young children are US citizens. For seven years, they’ve navigated being a mixed-status household, but the return of President Donald Trump to office changed their plans.
“I’ve literally never felt anxiety the way that I have in the last few years here,” Sasha told CNN.
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Trump’s push prompted a question from Sasha to Julio: Was it time to leave?
“It was an executive order being signed. And that was her call first, like, ‘What do you think about moving to Mexico?’ And I said, ‘Honestly, at this point, yeah, let’s do it,’” Julio said.
Over the course of six months, Sasha, Julio and their children — ages 8, 5 and 4 — began winding down their life in Pittsburgh, including packing up their home, weighing plans for their local construction business, and researching life in Mexico.
The family of five now joins a newly emerging community of people who have chosen to voluntarily depart the United States, fearful of the potential consequences they’d face if they stayed in the country without legal status.
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But it’s not just people who are undocumented taking the leap. Some US citizens, like Sasha and her three children, have opted to leave with their spouses.
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They were confronted with their worst nightmare when Kilmar Abrego Garcia, a Salvadoran national who was residing in the US, was mistakenly deported to a notorious mega-prison in El Salvador. While Julio and Abrego Garcia have different backgrounds, in appearance, they look similar — and Abrego Garcia’s wife is also a US citizen.
“I can see myself in that, and I don’t want us to wait until we’re in the same situation,” Sasha said.
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